Postby CanGetItUpButNotOff » Tue Apr 29, 2025 8:11 am
dan_bionic wrote:I had this problem already before implant, that I needed oral / deeptghroat to get orgasm, I think, thats barin, that needs mor stimulation than vaginal sex only
It perplexes me to hear about gents who get off best, or only, by oral. With my anorgasmia, the first to go was blowjobs. I used to - and still do - love blowjobs and cumming in her mouth was spectacular. Now, it's still a great feeling but there's no way her mouth can get me over the edge. With PIV, I have about a 60-70% success rate. It's strange that the desensitization of the penis is different for each of us. My best guess is that, for me, it's about control of the thrusting pace.
I'm as faithful as a puppy dog but I'm sorely tempted to find the best BJ provider in the land to test her abilities against my resistance.

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