Masturbation during marriage

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Nocturne » Wed Oct 25, 2017 8:46 pm

My wife and I both started masturbating around about kindergarten, and we both still masturbate today. I enjoy watching her do it while I participate but I admit I am a little squeamish about doing it in front of her - or more likely I'd rather just fuck her if she were in the room! But we both agree there is something special about time alone vs time with each other. Both are good!
Genetically sky-high Lp(a) of 390 led to various heart diseases. Ultra-low testosterone of 120 (now 480 with Clomid) also contributed to ED at age 41. Managing with daily Cialis, but for me, the implant is a "when", not an "if".

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby ocitgo » Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:05 pm

Catholics were told is was a mortal sin when I was young. I think was frowned upon in general then. All males have nocturnal ejacaculations to keep our reproductive functions working so the whole sinfulness thing is demonic and destructive to believe. I don't know the current status but a google query would be interesting.
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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby ocitgo » Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:13 pm

ocitgo wrote:Catholics were told is was a mortal sin when I was young. I think was frowned upon in general then. All males have nocturnal ejacaculations to keep our reproductive functions working so the whole sinfulness thing is demonic and destructive to believe. I don't know the current status but a google query would be interesting.


Here is the official answer.
https://www.catholiceducation.org/en/cu ... l-sin.html
ocitgo (Bob F), Bremerton, WA
Implanted 11/13/2017 AMS 700LGX 15 cm, 3 cm rear tip
Manas Jain, MD, Chi Franciscan, Harrison Medical Center Bremerton
BMT for Leukemia (9/9/1993) Fred Hutch, Seattle

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby backup2014 » Thu Jan 18, 2018 5:58 pm

I'm very fortunate. If she isn't horny and I am she will play with my nipples or my balls while I jerk off. The other night she laid on her left side and put her butt up against me and hump me while I beat off. Sometimes I will get her off with one hand and me with the other. Now that's hot!! She is horny most of the time and understands why I am as well. She will blow me or jack me off anytime I want, but sometimes I like to do it myself. No pressure to preform just get r done!!! I love watching her get off but I'm uneasy with her watching me.
67, Married to my childhood sweetheart, semi retired. Implant Dec 2014 Dr. Dean Knoll Nashville TN, RPS March 2014. Implant failure July 2017 Revision Oct 2017, First Implant AMS 700 LGX 19CM, Revision AMS 700 MS 21CM.

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby ragnar35 » Thu Jan 25, 2018 12:56 pm

The injections and a Fleshlight have made masturbation a lot of fun for me. The Fleshlight feels like the real thing to me - I usually inject, and use the fleshlight SLOW for about an hour until I orgasm. I recently ordered a life-size silicone ass/pussy off Ebay, because the Fleshlight is so good.
57 years old, male, low-grade prostate cancer being monitored, ED for 40 years, injecting Papaverime/Phentol 30/1 - but switching to a trimix to see if i get a better result.

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Cigar56 » Thu Jan 25, 2018 6:41 pm

Hey Ragnar, I got a couple Fleshlights and thinking about adding two more. I agree, a good Trimix injection and a Fleshlight is nirvana. Can you send me a link to the toy you found on Amazon?
62. Was under "active surveillance" for prostate cancer. Scheduled for prostate radiation -- Stereotactic Body Radiotherapy (SBRT) -- in December 2018. Considered implant for ED but decided to stay with injections.

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby 40buickcoupe » Sat Mar 17, 2018 12:37 am

I'm 63 had my prostate removed a year ago. I also masturbated every day and take care of the wife. Now waiting on the nerves to come back so been using the pump. I still OJ masturbating almost flaccid, now I just moved on to trymix and away we go. My wife says nooooooooooooooooo lol

I have always been this way thought I might be a sex addict but seems like a lot of men are like this. A lot of times I just masturbate with out the big OJ I just love it. Now after surgery I'm dry but the OJ is more intense but do miss the release

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby David_R » Sat Mar 17, 2018 8:01 am

40buickcoupe wrote:Now after surgery I'm dry but the OJ is more intense but do miss the release

The night before my prostate was to be removed I jacked off, knowing it would be the last time I would see cum shoot out of my dick. (But it was something I could give up since now I can always get hard and stay hard as long as I like -- which is nice for the wife.) ;)
Age 69. Prostatectomy in 2000. My urologist is Dr. Marc Siegelbaum of Univ. of Md. St. Joseph Med. Ctr. in Baltimore suburb of Towson. (LGX, and after regular inflating I regained my original length and girth.)

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Larry10625 » Sun Mar 18, 2018 3:31 pm

40buickcoupe wrote:I'm 63 had my prostate removed a year ago. I also masturbated every day and take care of the wife. Now waiting on the nerves to come back so been using the pump. I still OJ masturbating almost flaccid, now I just moved on to trymix and away we go. My wife says nooooooooooooooooo lol

I have always been this way thought I might be a sex addict but seems like a lot of men are like this. A lot of times I just masturbate with out the big OJ I just love it. Now after surgery I'm dry but the OJ is more intense but do miss the release



What is OJ??? :)

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Woodicould » Tue Mar 20, 2018 9:41 am

40buickcoupe wrote:
Now after surgery I'm dry but the OJ is more intense but do miss the release

Yeah, not having the release makes it all a bit anti-climatic, but hopefully we get more years of life. We just have to learn to compensate. I find that relations with my wife usually takes care of my needs now since the thrill of ejaculation isn't there any more.
Prostate cancer age 65 with PSA 5.8. Biopsy Oct 2010. Gleason score of 7, 3+4 with perineural invasion. Stage II, T2cNXMX.
Jan-Feb 2011 radiation. Palladium-103 seed implant March 2011 (55 implants). Lupron treatment from Dec 2010 to Aug 2011 (8 months).


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