Martin25 wrote:Five Months Later
I’ve been off this site for a while because I’ve been kind of depressed. My last visit with Dr. Eid in April left me feeling very down. If you read this journal, you know I had a very very difficult recovery and I also found Dr. Eid not to be particularly sympathetic…
Anyway, I saw him about 3 1/2 months after the surgery and I was in a room wearing a surgical gown open to the front. He was busy that day, so I had to wait almost an hour. He entered the room with his nurse assistant, took one look at me, and said, “You’re inflated.” No greeting, no asking how I was feeling.
I asked him what he meant. Without testing the implant, without trying to have me deflate and inflate, he told me that because I had not been completely deflating. (not true, I followed his instructions to the letter, and I had several office visits after surgery while he was on vacation with his nurse assistant who deflated me.) a capsule had formed around my reservoir, and now I would not be able to deflate completely. Then he casually said that this would limit blood flow to my penis and result in permanent shrinkage! He then said he wanted to do another surgery where he would make an incision by the reservoir and remove fluid.
I told him that I had been deflating and squeezing the penis as hard as I could, while pressing the button. Never having had an implant before, I thought it was normal to have it always retain some fluid. As stated, I had also visited his office several times after the surgery because I was so swollen and in such pain. However, Eid was on vacation during this time, and I was working with his nurse assistant.
As I tried to suppress the panic, I was feeling, I reminded Eid that I was scheduled to have a stent implanted for a cerebral aneurysm and I would need to be on blood thinner for it. At which point he said oh OK just do that it’s more important so maybe you can just give your penis a squeeze before you go to bed. Then he left the room. He was with me for a total of maybe four or five minutes (he billed my insurance my insurance company $2500 for this visit by the way, but that’s a whole different issue. I owe him thousands of dollars now because I thought when I went in several times after the surgery because of the swelling that it would be considered part of the follow up care. Evidently, it was not and each time my insurance company was billed anywhere from $2500 to $3500 for each visit, which they are not approving)
I searched this site about auto inflation and I learned that there are many guys who do leave fluid in their implants because they don’t like the dog ears or they like the feeling of being somewhat inflated. None of them have had any penis shrinkage. So, I have decided to ignore Dr. Eid for now. It turns out that I’m unable to have the surgery for my aneurysm. (a whole other story.) but I am reluctant to return to Dr. Eid to ask about what removing fluid would entail, because I can’t afford it financially.
Here is what I think— Doctor Eid, like all of us, is imperfect. He had an off day for my surgery. As a result, I had a horrible recovery with horrific swelling. I think he screwed up the placement of the reservoir because I had tremendous pain in the reservoir area, which I thought was normal. I mentioned it to the nurse assistant who said it would simply go away. What really bothers me about Dr. Eid is his lack of sympathy and his first reaction to just blame the patient. I also now know I’m going to have countless hours of haggling with my insurance company and his office regarding payment of quite a a bit of money.
I know Eid is almost a godlike figure to many men on this website, but to those people—please don’t comment and tell me how wonderful Dr. Eid is and how easy your recovery was. I had a different experience and I’m just sharing it. From the beginning, I wanted an AMS because of the size of my penis, and I know for certain that Dr. Eid has a deal with the Coloplast company. Yeah, he will bullshit you and tell you that he will install on AMS, but he will also tell you why you will have a poor result. What guy is going to choose a surgeon who says I’m going to do something that you are requesting, but I’m telling you in advance that it will be bad for you?
If I had to do it all over again, I would fly to Houston to see a younger surgeon like Dr. Clavell, who selects the type of implant based on the patient, not based on the deal he has with one particular company.
Two things:
1. I think I definitely have this permanent shrinkage he's referring to. My penis is much less meaty now 4 years into my implant.
2. Anytime I saw him, I paid cash for the appointment and the price was $400. If you're sure your insurance isn't going to pay, I would ask his office if they can charge you the cash price for those appointments