Partner struggle and Divorce

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
penitreatment
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Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby penitreatment » Thu Jun 16, 2022 11:33 pm

I have seen on a Facebook ED page that alot of females are struggling with their partners due to ED. In most cases they are separated. Most of the couples are in their young age. While Implanted men are very happy in a relationships or with wives. Why all these are struggling if a good option of ED is there? Why they don't take early step to get an implant to save their relationship?
Doctors are advised to take pills, injections and then go for an implant. All the couples who choose this path of treatment struggle and are not satisfied, get anxiety, depression and waste their time and money. I think, this is a wise decision to take early steps to get an implant. Because ED sucks Brain, Damaged physically, emotionally, socially.
ED due to VL. Implant is the last resort. Tried Cialis 5mg that works but have Chinese brand.

frwmw1
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Re: Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby frwmw1 » Fri Jun 17, 2022 2:33 am

It's hard to tell because often it's not actually ED, it's the relationship.
45yo, venous leak. Pills increased tinnitus (very rare). Using bimix+atropine, 0.2 of:
Atropine Sulfate: 52MCG/ML, Phentolamine MES: 0.9MG/ML, Papaverine HCL: 26MG/ML

beachbum
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Re: Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby beachbum » Fri Jun 17, 2022 4:15 am

The fact that most insurance doesn't cover the cost of implants probably has a lot to do with not going right to an implant first. Also most Dr's, I think, would recommend noninvasive actions first. And too, a lot of men either don't know, or don't know enough about implants to consider one.
Just my thoughts.
71. ED for about 10+ years to one extent or another. Implanted 9/14/2016 AMS CX 18+3 Fl/ Ky

penitreatment
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Re: Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby penitreatment » Fri Jun 17, 2022 8:17 am

beachbum wrote:The fact that most insurance doesn't cover the cost of implants probably has a lot to do with not going right to an implant first. Also most Dr's, I think, would recommend noninvasive actions first. And too, a lot of men either don't know, or don't know enough about implants to consider one.
Just my thoughts.

Do you believe that most of the females dislike the surgery or they have some reservations over bionic men? Do females also has egoism about her husband in the society?
ED due to VL. Implant is the last resort. Tried Cialis 5mg that works but have Chinese brand.

AST2123
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Re: Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby AST2123 » Fri Jun 17, 2022 8:37 am

beachbum wrote:The fact that most insurance doesn't cover the cost of implants probably has a lot to do with not going right to an implant first. Also most Dr's, I think, would recommend noninvasive actions first. And too, a lot of men either don't know, or don't know enough about implants to consider one.
Just my thoughts.

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Finally Bionic
52y old. RP Oct. 2017. Pills didn't work. Trimix failed after a couple of times. Have inguinal hernia repair on both sides. Implanted AMS CX, 21 cm+1 cm RTE, by Dr. Kai Li at KP, VA, Jan. 2021. New username FinallyBionic

jimmi85
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Re: Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby jimmi85 » Fri Jun 17, 2022 10:33 am

My last relationship broke down due to my Peyronies.

It was a vicious circle.

My bend was so severe, even though i could get hard i couldn't use it.

The psychological effect my Peyronies had on me, with my size loss and deformity no doubt had a detrimental effect on our relationship.

Because i couldn't satisfy her the way she wanted/was used to she eventually pulled away from intimacy altogether and this broke the relationship.
Implanted by Mike Fraser in feb 2022 due to a 80 degree dorsal curvature. 18cm Titan - way undersized. 8’ pre Peyronies, 6’ pre implant - currently 6’.

bionicbrother
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Re: Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby bionicbrother » Fri Jun 17, 2022 11:46 am

penitreatment wrote:
beachbum wrote:The fact that most insurance doesn't cover the cost of implants probably has a lot to do with not going right to an implant first. Also most Dr's, I think, would recommend noninvasive actions first. And too, a lot of men either don't know, or don't know enough about implants to consider one.
Just my thoughts.

Do you believe that most of the females dislike the surgery or they have some reservations over bionic men? Do females also has egoism about her husband in the society?


I dont think so. Many folks(especially woman) dont even know about implant forget about disliking it. Noone need to show off that they have implant as well.. so its more of an education and getting more people to adopt this.
40 yrs old. Have ED and PE all my life. Never had penetrative sex all my life. Tried almost all kinds of options( pills, injections, natural therapies etc. Turned Bionic on May 17'22 with Titan by Dr.Karpman infrapubic approach.16cm+2 RTE

Old Guy
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Re: Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby Old Guy » Fri Jun 17, 2022 11:59 am

ED put a strain on our marriage, and my depression made me say and do stuff I regret. When ED began she almost stopped our sexual times until Viagra. Pills were OK but that made sex having to be planned. When pills failed another round of ED to the point all we could do is masturbate each other, and she gave up on that before too long. Injections were next, again a pain because I never knew when wife would be in the mood. If we got into a mood, break it off to go inject. When injections failed and another round of ED started wife gave up. When we talked about the implant she wasn't sure, but let me decide. As much as I had a tough healing we are both happy with the results. Our sex life is very much like it used to be. I really wish I could have skipped the pills and injections and gone straight to my implant.
Nov. 8, 2019
4+ years, Coloplast Titan OTR
Married 36 years to my beautiful young bride
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bionicbrother
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Re: Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby bionicbrother » Fri Jun 17, 2022 12:19 pm

Implant doesnt seem to have that much advertisement and investment as much as pills.. We need more education and getting people to get more interested in this.. Also we need more qualified surgeons.. and also finally the cost to come down..
40 yrs old. Have ED and PE all my life. Never had penetrative sex all my life. Tried almost all kinds of options( pills, injections, natural therapies etc. Turned Bionic on May 17'22 with Titan by Dr.Karpman infrapubic approach.16cm+2 RTE

Rider1400
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Re: Partner struggle and Divorce

Postby Rider1400 » Fri Jun 17, 2022 1:35 pm

ED definitely put a strain on my marriage. The wife has been pretty much understanding but could see the disappointment at times. The pills for 10 years with great results early on and a diminishing effect later in the 10 years. Then injections worked great but I hated the inconvenience of it and lack of spontaneity. Been implanted 4 weeks and 2 days. Used on wife twice with several mutual times. It is smoothing out gradually with the missus as last nite she smiled a lot as I pumped it up and was good to go in 30 seconds! Think it’s going to be a game changer. Just starting to get comfortable and pretty much pain free so anxious to go on vacation week after next for our 36th anniversary and unlike the last couple years not be tied to 2-3 injections in a week and having to wait every other day… she and I are slowly getting excited about our new toy
58year old ED started mid 40s pills failed after 10 years. Injections works but diminishing results with pain. Implanted 5-22 Baylor,Scott,and White Dallas.Dr Michael Wierschem, infrapubic Coloplast 20cm and 1cm RTE. Going strong and loving it!


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