Now that I am six months out, I have started to learn that there is such a thing as too hard.
We have seen this from the writings of two highly sexed members on this board:
Merrix once stataed:
....Yesterday when having sex, I abandoned my recent strategy of pumping 15-20 pumps for sex, which is what has given me something I’d describe as a very hard erection which is still within the limits of what a natural erection could achieve. I pumped it almost full,……A nice experiment, which confirmed that an implant, if properly functioning and installed, is hard way beyond anything natural…….My wife, who has said previously that she feels nothing unnatural about my dick when having intercourse, definitely did not think so yesterday. It felt like being taken by a machine…So next time, I am most likely back to using an 80% inflation.…..My assumption right or wrong was that having some stretch and capacity left in the penis allowed some natural blood flow at least for me and more spongiousum flow and glans enlargement. Hence more sensation. My wife also doesn't notice the difference which should be reassuring to us all that stiff is important but incremental size changes don't matter to them. …
SMETRO once stated:
, Last night the delightful Miss H told me (finally) that she prefers me pumped up hard but with a tiny bit taken out, she said at maximum inflation it is just a bit too much.
Thankfully we have a very open discussion about sex and actually I got the implant to enable reliable erections not to be a human battering ram! So now I pump to max and then hit the button to let a couple of ml out and hey presto....perfect cock for my girl ...
Last week, my wife stated that my dick is bigger than it was, and girth is a little too much for her, so I too have started to back off on the inflated pressure.
QUESTION: as advanced sex studs, we need to be really good with the variable of "cock stiffness". Please write in with any other remarks or techniques that make sex a supernatural experience for our partners.