why no sex after implant?

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OysterDude
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby OysterDude » Tue Nov 28, 2023 1:50 pm

You didn't mention which technique was used. Infrapubic or Penoscrotal. IF guys tend to get back in the saddle much quicker than PS. (see my bio below). Always follow your Dr. directions but maybe seek other patients from this DR. and their experience?
The usual pills, injections of increasing strength until the ache was too much and ineffective. 66 yrs old. Implanted 7/14/22 Dr Blick, Scottsdale. AMS CX 21cm+2cmRTE. Infrapubic. Back in the saddle 8/3/21. We could not be happier with the result!

Stayingstrong
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby Stayingstrong » Tue Nov 28, 2023 6:36 pm

Witheringhog wrote:Agree with the above but i also read somewhere a capsule forms around the implant, my guess is you want that natural protection around the implant, then you cycle. Guessing here.

Dr Eid's current protocol is to start cycling three days after surgery in a hot bath.
This is totally contradictory to Dr. Clavell who says to wait at least 3 weeks before beginning to cycle and NO baths, only showers.
I am using Dr. Eid.
Eid has over 7000 implants, .4% infection rate.
Clavell has 1000+ implants, less than 1% infection rate.
Both penoscrotal.
Two top surgeons with totally different after surgery protocols??????
Age 70
Pills didn't work well. Trimix worked good for 3 years, then only fair for following 3 years but need a cock ring in conjunction.
Implant 12/6/2023 Dr. Eid
Coloplast Titan 20 cm with right side trimmed to 19 cm. No RTE. Classic pump.

Witheringhog
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby Witheringhog » Wed Nov 29, 2023 8:26 am

Stayingstrong wrote:
Witheringhog wrote:Agree with the above but i also read somewhere a capsule forms around the implant, my guess is you want that natural protection around the implant, then you cycle. Guessing here.

Dr Eid's current protocol is to start cycling three days after surgery in a hot bath.
This is totally contradictory to Dr. Clavell who says to wait at least 3 weeks before beginning to cycle and NO baths, only showers.
I am using Dr. Eid.
Eid has over 7000 implants, .4% infection rate.
Clavell has 1000+ implants, less than 1% infection rate.
Both penoscrotal.
Two top surgeons with totally different after surgery protocols??????


Great point, hard to say just listen to your doc when two of the best do it differently. My hunch is wait till your wounds heal, clavell goes in through the nuts, so maybe its more to do with keeping the incision clean vs the internals?
49 - Coloplast Titan 22 implanted 5-2 Dr. Clavell in Houston

oldbeek
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby oldbeek » Wed Nov 29, 2023 11:00 am

2 weeks after implant, just after soaking in the hot tub ,a gentle sucking from the wife was very soothing. Doc left me 80% pumped up and said leave it alone for 4 weeks till my follow up. Just saying
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

Gt1956
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby Gt1956 » Wed Nov 29, 2023 4:42 pm

Nats56, in my case I think the drs instructions was sex at 4 weeks. Actual time was 6 weeks because my wife was out of the state.
I have two points of view on this. Considering on how much would be riding on early sex. Like who wants to be operated on again? Take your drs advice, you payed for his skill & you should trust his advice. Second, most of us have not had penetrative sex for quite a while. What would waiting for 4-6 weeks hurt?
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months

nats56
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby nats56 » Wed Nov 29, 2023 5:10 pm

Thanks everyone. Tomorrow will be 3 weeks for me. Had my first follow up yesterday but it was just the PA doing the exam. No new instructions. Just looked at everything to make sure it was OK. I mentioned to her that I'd been pumping twice everyday for close to 2 weeks and she said I really ought to talk to the doc. Well, that appointment is not until 1/9/24. I've been reading a lot of different opinions on here and elsewhere and it seems that a lot of them want you to start pumping as early as the pain will permit. There was a little pain the first couple of times but now only occasional mild discomfort. I guess the no sex part is the hardest (yes, it's a lousy pun) to endure right now. Luckily, I guess, my wife has more sense than me and she sez' to wait for the ok. I will mention that I did have the peno-scrotal technique and was implanted with the AMX 700 LGX. I'm in fairly good shape, 67, 181lbs, 6'-1". Exercise 5 days a week so I think that probably helped with the relatively quick healing.
Had ED starting in my early 40s. Viagra worked for many years and then it didn't. Tried Vardenafil and it worked fairly well until it stopped about 6 months ago. Gave up and pursued an implant.

Gt1956
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby Gt1956 » Wed Nov 29, 2023 7:24 pm

Nats56, the expert in your case should be your doctor. Did you get a paper showing the steps of instructions for you to follow during your recovery?

Did you think to ask for a list of steps or when sex could resume at you appointment with the PA?

Btw, other than the AMS model, you & I are very similar. Did you research your drs implant qualifications? His aftercare should of showed up in the reviews.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months

nats56
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby nats56 » Wed Nov 29, 2023 8:47 pm

Gt1956, there's only one urology center here where I live and because of my circumstances, traveling would place too great a burden on my wife. However, the doc I saw had good reviews so I felt reasonably confident he was at least adequate.

I did ask the PA about pumping since the only stipulations my doc gave me was no heavy lifting, get plenty of rest and no vardenafil. Nothing about pumping (or not) or when to resume sex as I mentioned before. Maybe I missed something. However, why would there be one set of instructions from some doctors and a completely different set from another? Just doesn't make sense to me. So, if I'm not experiencing any pain or difficulty pumping and there seems to be so many patients and doctors saying it's better to pump soon after the procedure, well, I would like to restore the length before it's too late since that is supposed to aid that.
Had ED starting in my early 40s. Viagra worked for many years and then it didn't. Tried Vardenafil and it worked fairly well until it stopped about 6 months ago. Gave up and pursued an implant.


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