Size issue with women I meet

[Stayingstrong]

Work your way from her lips (kissing) slowly down her body. Pay plenty of attention to her boobs and nipples and work your way down slowly along her stomach to her thighs. Tease with your tongue around, but not on her clit. Then, slowly, work your tongue onto her clit and salivate as much as possible.. Use plenty of spit. The wetter, the better. As you slowly lick, flick, and swirl your tongue around her clit, run the Tips of your fingers over her stomach upto her Tips, back and forth.
As you do this for awhile, she should begin to orgasm. She will have an orgasm and then quickly recover and build towards another. This orgasm cycle should occurs multiple times with each one more intended than the previous. At some point after a few orgasms she will beg you to put it inside her. When you enter her, she will be so worked up that she will, again, orgasm quickly from your penetration. It will be more pyschologically induced than physically, but it will be real and it will be intended, her being at her horniest point.
Just as a woman can "own" a man with a skilled blowjob, so can a man win a woman with skilled orange. It is well worth the time and effort to make sure she is taken care of first.

[oldbeek]

Every female i've met in my life, who has been close enough to freely discuss intercourse with and that i trust, have confirmed that penetration orgasm is a myth.
So don't worry about your penis, just help them finish otherwise.

surveys regarding being able to orgasm from penis in vagina shows that just 20 percent of women can do it.
My experience, prior to implant, my wife never had orgasm from penis in vagina, but now with implant, her orgasm happens pretty routinely; in fact she no longer wants the foreplay and just craves the big stretch w pressure on her clit but with me fully in her.

I think that an orgasm generated buy your penis requires:

(a) more dwell time in the socket,
(b) very hard cock,
(c) motion that is subtle with pressure on her clit buy your pubic bone
(d) a mentally horny and turned on girl
(e) consistent repetitive motion at just the right angle, just the right depth, and just the right safe attitude

Those are a lot of things to come together in exactly the right sequence and the exactly the right time frame. If you mess up on any of them, poof, her orgasm chances are gone. Wow, so much pressure on us guys. In my mind, guys with implants have a better chance of meeting the above five conditions since a bionic guy has "total control over his tool, and as a result, he can be the total boss in bed"

I am going to resurrect my thread on advanced sex techniques for bionics to see if I can generate more experience and advice on how please a women using the advanced capabilities that we bionics have.

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Well said Tangerine. When younger, mutual orgasms were most often achieved with her ass on a pillow to elevate her to where our pubic bones meet better. When would try to stroke, she would grab my ass and pull me in. Stop pulling out ,dam it. Hold it in deep and stroke slowly. Porn shows girls doing cowboy up on their feet going up and down the shaft. That is BS. Girls like it deep with her just rocking and her clit rubbing on you. Mine likes one finger to the first joint up her ass also.

[Lost Sheep]

Good advice, Stayingstrong,

While it may be formulaic, it is a very effective pathway to the woman's satisfaction (and the man's).

I do have some critiques that may improve on it:

"salivate as much as possible" Sure, make certain she is wet enough that your tongue slides easily over her tender parts, but most of the liquid should come from her, not from you. How much of her vaginal lubrication is produced is useful to tell how effective you are at turning her on. Use that information and do not dilute the data with your own saliva.

"swirl your tongue around her clit" There are many movements of the tongue on the clitoris, surrounding areas and inside both the labia majora and labia minora. Do not neglect those areas. Dip your tongue inside her. From the inside put pressure on the bottom of the clitoris. Try to reach her "G"spot. Slide up from the bottom of the clitoris to its head. Push on the clitorial tip (like pushing a button), circle the clitoris clockwise and counter-clockwise, go up and down alongside the clitoral shaft as well as centered on the shaft, etc. Observe how she reacts to each different movement. If she does not like something, don't do it and talk to her about it later. Many women resist something because they think is it somehow "not right", even though it feels GREAT. Encourage her to let go of restrictive thinking.

Some women like their breasts massaged, some just gently stroked, some scratched lightly with fingernails. Some women like their nipples nibbled and some hate that. Some like their nipples squeezed or pulled or??? Ask her what is pleasing and what is displeasing.

Ask. Many women are reluctant to give a man directions. If you cannot figure out what pleases her by observing her reactions (which can often be ambiguous, misleading or downright confusing) just ask her .... diplomatically and you may have to convince her that you sincerely want to become the best lover she could possibly have. It may take some coaxing to get her to be completely candid about her wants and desires (and many women do not understand what turns them on, since society has dictated that the man should be the driving force and she should be the passive receiver, so she has never even thought about what might improve things).

I repeat: If she does not like something, stop doing it but talk to her about it later. Many women resist something because they think is it somehow "not right", even though it feels GREAT. Encourage her to let go of restrictive thinking.

[oldbeek]

Work your way from her lips (kissing) slowly down her body. Pay plenty of attention to her boobs and nipples and work your way down slowly along her stomach to her thighs. Tease with your tongue around, but not on her clit. Then, slowly, work your tongue onto her clit and salivate as much as possible.. Use plenty of spit. The wetter, the better. As you slowly lick, flick, and swirl your tongue around her clit, run the Tips of your fingers over her stomach upto her Tips, back and forth.
As you do this for awhile, she should begin to orgasm. She will have an orgasm and then quickly recover and build towards another. This orgasm cycle should occurs multiple times with each one more intended than the previous. At some point after a few orgasms she will beg you to put it inside her. When you enter her, she will be so worked up that she will, again, orgasm quickly from your penetration. It will be more pyschologically induced than physically, but it will be real and it will be intended, her being at her horniest point.
Just as a woman can "own" a man with a skilled blowjob, so can a man win a woman with skilled orange. It is well worth the time and effort to make sure she is taken care of first.

Agree completely

[frwmw1]

Try this technique - when entering, push down and try to pivot your penis into her g-spot by pushing down on the bottom of the wall at the entrance of the vagina, this makes it feel fuller to the woman.

Nina Hartley has a video on it, where she explains it, if you look around you'll find it.

I honestly think hardness is the biggest factor in a woman's pleasure, length and thickness aren't as important as what people think, as hardness gets the angles women like, and helps "hit the spot".

[Mark74]

7 inches?

I was 5.5 (maybe almost 6 when I was 18)

They say you're too narrow?

Try telling them to use a vibrator while you penetrate anally

[sonnyjim]

If you're too small then I'm definitely too small.

I can't see how there is a size issue with your size though to be honest.

[Boatman678]

If you have a 7” length and a 5” girth, you are ok. I have the same implant. AMS 700 CX 18cm with a 4cm end. I am getting about 6” length and a 5” girth all the way top to bottom. Not sure why mine ain’t 7”. Although I am ok with the size. Might be something else you might not be doing. Lots of women can’t get off with just intercourse.