Does erection influence desire?

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Nocturne
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Does erection influence desire?

Postby Nocturne » Fri May 29, 2020 4:06 pm

Quick question for all of you implanted.
If you were to pump to full rigidity and simply leave yourself there, all day, would you find yourself sexually stimulated and desirous of sex all day long? To what degree would it be a distraction?
If you were, theoretically, a young man with lifelong ED, who wanted an implant but could not pay for it, and an older woman with money offered to finance your implant in exchange for... favors... that involved a period of living in with her and servicing her “needs”, and she had the intention of keeping you fully erect for the entire duration, to what degree would that be a distraction while you were going about your assigned business of cleaning, doing laundry, and other household chores up to and including giving her (and potentially her female friends) oral servicing under the table after serving them lunch?
I’m... asking for a friend.
Genetically sky-high Lp(a) of 390 led to various heart diseases. Ultra-low testosterone of 120 (now 480 with Clomid) also contributed to ED at age 41. Managing with daily Cialis, but for me, the implant is a "when", not an "if".

notaes
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Re: Does erection influence desire?

Postby notaes » Fri May 29, 2020 4:20 pm

I was implanted four months ago. No pain and had to wait six weeks before sex. Speaking for myself if I pumped my cock up I would have to use it or nothing would ever get done. My libido is as strong as it’s ever been in my life. I’m 67 years old and usually have sex at least 3-4 times a week. Usually every other day. Pumping up my cock is a sure thing for some type of action. I am one of those guys that has to have it! I love my implant despite losing some length and girth. Hopefully in time I will get some of that back. Pumping my cock up would be a big distraction as I could not focus until I had sex. Hope this helps you!
66 yr old male married 36 yrs use trimix four yrs, cilais and Viagra. trimix work well developed scarring on both sides had implant 1/9/2020 at UT Med Ctr, Knoxville, TN Dr. John Lacy.

Old Guy
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Re: Does erection influence desire?

Postby Old Guy » Fri May 29, 2020 4:57 pm

That almost sounds like a young mans dream to have to service females at beck & call.
Anyway, I think your dick would get sore after a while staying fully pumped up. It might take a couple of months to a year before you'd even be able to service females for a long period of time.
At 7 months out I am finally able to inflate and NOT masturbate. After so long a time with ED and not being able to masturbate on a regular basis like I used to, every time I'd inflate it didn't get deflated until I got off. Even deflated it's still stiff enough to masturbate easily, like I've done quite a few times while sitting in a tub.
Tell your friend take the money and fuck.
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Re: Does erection influence desire?

Postby Lost Sheep » Fri May 29, 2020 7:44 pm

Nocturne wrote:Quick question for all of you implanted.
If you were to pump to full rigidity and simply leave yourself there, all day, would you find yourself sexually stimulated and desirous of sex all day long? To what degree would it be a distraction?

Sexual desire is more a function of mental attitude than penile erection. The discomfort of 100% erection is distracting a lot more than any amount of sexual desire I have ever felt. At 90% inflation, discomfort is gone (when naked) but in clothes discomfort is distracting. (I am average size. If smaller it would be less problematic and if larger, more so.)
Nocturne wrote:If you were, theoretically, a young man with lifelong ED, who wanted an implant but could not pay for it, and an older woman with money offered to finance your implant in exchange for... favors... that involved a period of living in with her and servicing her “needs”, and she had the intention of keeping you fully erect for the entire duration, to what degree would that be a distraction while you were going about your assigned business of cleaning, doing laundry, and other household chores up to and including giving her (and potentially her female friends) oral servicing under the table after serving them lunch?

The scenario you describe is a lot different than simply exchanging sexual favors for paying for the implant. The "sex-slave" trope is an old one, however. I suspect being a "kept man" would get old after a while, especially if the woman(women) were less than attractive.

Besides, I don't think women have the fantasy of keeping a man erect 24/7 by means of an implant. They have other sexual/emotional priorities in my experience.

Nocturne wrote:up to and including giving her (and potentially her female friends) oral servicing under the table after serving them lunch?
I’m... asking for a friend.

You don't need an implant to "service" a woman orally. I became fairly good at it as E.D. took its toll on my penis' capacity.
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