Larry10625 wrote:andywalther wrote:rancher wrote:It has been about two years since I've had intercourse with my wife. At that point nothing kept me hard enough to have penetration. I'm currently at 32 days post op. I have my 6 week followup appointment with my doc next Wednesday. He'll "officially" start me cycling and probably give me the "go ahead" for having sex. I've been cycling on my own for a week. Though I'm not back to my full pre-op size, I am extremely excited about how hard I get when I pump up. I cycle twice a day and try for an hour and a half hour session. Having my dick this hard for an hour at a time is building my confidence tremendously. For years prior to no longer being able to have intercourse, I was always worried that , "will I be able to stay hard enough long enough ." Now, that won't be a problem. My wife and I have been talking "frankly" and we are both excited and nervous about our first sex post-op. Not having to worry whether Mr. Dick will be able to hold up his end of the deal, I can concentrate completely on my wife and making her happy. And you better believe that makes me extremely happy.
And that gives me confidence that I have not had for a long time.
Thanks again! Can't wait, it's going to be a loonngg 2+ months before I can try out my NEW "equipment". We have always had a good sex life, although she just won't do oral, which I would like, but otherwise, really tries to please me, especially lately with "my" problem. I really want to please her with something other then a vibrator, she deserves it!
Andy
I am quite certain if you really wanted a BJ, there are some very discreet ladies that would be willing to accommodate you for a fee. They would be really good at it too, maybe even swallow. That may improve your love life with your wife because you wouldn't be resenting the fact that she won't blow you.
As for vibrators, my wife had one called it the Air Touch, and she goes just nuts for this thing. We use it during foreplay and I usually control, although she usually takes it and finishes herself off. This is a great little toy and I highly recommend it.
Larry
Where did you purchase the Air Touch? Sounds useful!