Implant for mental reasons

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
confused95
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby confused95 » Sat May 15, 2021 5:49 pm

Good point.
It’ll be a pleasure to follow your journey.
Keep us updated mate, and enjoy your new bionic dick (and happiness)
26yo from Italy. Psychogenic ed since dec 2019, got worse in Jan 2021. On Cialis 5mg every 24hrs, it works! But masturbation and sex bring me a lot of anxiety. On talk-therapy.
Update: diagnosed with slight Peyronie’s, investigating more on that

LBC2020
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby LBC2020 » Sat May 15, 2021 5:50 pm

I understand all
You poibtd

They are valid
It’s Jist I’ve been dealing w this for ten years

I’m tired
I’m so tired of it
Finasteride 2005-11
Terrible
Side effects

Been having ED since 2011 with penile shrinkage...was totally impotent for a few months and penis changed
Low libido
Low T
Had kids along the way and recovered some
Function

Implanted w dr Eid June 10 2021

Time2Change
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby Time2Change » Sat May 15, 2021 8:51 pm

LBC,

I absolutely understand how you feel.

Come this summer, I'll hit 20 years of having ED. Up until last fall, no treatments were effective. I still have ED, but my implant is by far and away the most effective treatment I've had.

I'm just starting to wrap my head around the damage from my ED to me and my relationships. At this time last spring, when it looked like my insurance was going to deny approval for my surgery, I was close to ending my marriage and giving up on any idea of ever having a successful relationship with a woman again.

I hope everything goes as well for you as it has for me with my implant.
55; ED for 23 years; Coloplast Titan implant on 10/26/20; Dr. Martin Gross; Happy to share my experiences in private messages

FreddyFree
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby FreddyFree » Sun May 16, 2021 6:47 am

LBC2020 wrote:Can anyone relate to this?


When I first read your post, I thought you were writing my biography. I was a virgin till I was 28.

Knowing what I know now about implants, I would have tried to get an implant when I was 18! It was devastating having my natural dick for 63 years. Depression for as long as I remember, has made me a very angry man.
AMS 700 CX 18cm. x 12mm. With 3cm. RTEs. 10/10/18

LBC2020
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby LBC2020 » Sun May 16, 2021 8:05 am

FreddyFree wrote:
LBC2020 wrote:Can anyone relate to this?


When I first read your post, I thought you were writing my biography. I was a virgin till I was 28.

Knowing what I know now about implants, I would have tried to get an implant when I was 18! It was devastating having my natural dick for 63 years. Depression for as long as I remember, has made me a very angry man.



So your a happy man now
Finasteride 2005-11
Terrible
Side effects

Been having ED since 2011 with penile shrinkage...was totally impotent for a few months and penis changed
Low libido
Low T
Had kids along the way and recovered some
Function

Implanted w dr Eid June 10 2021

FreddyFree
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby FreddyFree » Mon May 17, 2021 6:50 am

LBC2020 wrote:
FreddyFree wrote:
LBC2020 wrote:Can anyone relate to this?


When I first read your post, I thought you were writing my biography. I was a virgin till I was 28.

Knowing what I know now about implants, I would have tried to get an implant when I was 18! It was devastating having my natural dick for 63 years. Depression for as long as I remember, has made me a very angry man.



So your a happy man now

I’m happy with my dick now, other than the loss in length from 20 years of not getting an erection. But the habits I formed being bitter are difficult to shed.
AMS 700 CX 18cm. x 12mm. With 3cm. RTEs. 10/10/18

confused95
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby confused95 » Mon May 17, 2021 7:30 am

FreddyFree wrote:
LBC2020 wrote:
FreddyFree wrote:
When I first read your post, I thought you were writing my biography. I was a virgin till I was 28.

Knowing what I know now about implants, I would have tried to get an implant when I was 18! It was devastating having my natural dick for 63 years. Depression for as long as I remember, has made me a very angry man.



So your a happy man now

I’m happy with my dick now, other than the loss in length from 20 years of not getting an erection. But the habits I formed being bitter are difficult to shed.


Wow man. It must have been a dream to get rid of this fucking ed and start living again.
Wishing you the best
26yo from Italy. Psychogenic ed since dec 2019, got worse in Jan 2021. On Cialis 5mg every 24hrs, it works! But masturbation and sex bring me a lot of anxiety. On talk-therapy.
Update: diagnosed with slight Peyronie’s, investigating more on that

October26
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby October26 » Tue May 18, 2021 9:58 pm

LBC2020 wrote:Honestly
I’ll be frank...I’m not totally impotent obviously
But the mental toll for me is no unbearable. I couldn’t even imagine doing anytning w a women...I wouldn’t even pay for sex bc it would be over in a few seconds or minutes...either I’d cum or lose it....so that kills the libido

I’m doing the implant even though maybe injections would work for now or more and higher doses kf cialis, but at the end of the day for me, and my obsessive personality that would still make me feel shitty bc I know I would just worry about the next time, the next time, etc.


Can anyone relate to this? I’m
Literally doing this so I can get over this PTSD of ED as I call it...it’s like a phobia now...sure I still get erect and looks totally normal for a certain time but once it’s gone it’s gone....and that mental toll is too great....if I never had sex again and lived on an island I’d still want the implant just to mentally feel like a man...

Does this sound insane?
.

You are totally ready for an implant and sound like I was for years and years. With viagra, cialis and later injections, I could get an erection but would lose it. Then the mind games would take over. I did not know about implants until recently and finally at age 60, I did it. It was a basically easy process, paid for by insurance and the result was great. I am six mos out and my wife is having some therapy so we can be intimate. You are not insane—you are totally normal and you need to address the problem head on. Good luck!
Coloplast Titan 22 cm + 1.5 cm RTE 10/26/2020

hectorm64
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby hectorm64 » Wed May 19, 2021 3:50 am

LBC2020 wrote:Honestly
I’ll be frank...I’m not totally impotent obviously
But the mental toll for me is no unbearable. I couldn’t even imagine doing anytning w a women...I wouldn’t even pay for sex bc it would be over in a few seconds or minutes...either I’d cum or lose it....so that kills the libido

I’m doing the implant even though maybe injections would work for now or more and higher doses kf cialis, but at the end of the day for me, and my obsessive personality that would still make me feel shitty bc I know I would just worry about the next time, the next time, etc.


Can anyone relate to this? I’m
Literally doing this so I can get over this PTSD of ED as I call it...it’s like a phobia now...sure I still get erect and looks totally normal for a certain time but once it’s gone it’s gone....and that mental toll is too great....if I never had sex again and lived on an island I’d still want the implant just to mentally feel like a man...

Does this sound insane?


Hey Man,
I can related to your situation. For some people, maybe sound funny but PTSD of ED is real. I was implanted 9 weeks ago with an excellent result and very smooth recovering time but I am still battling my PTSD of ED. My bionic works perfect but sometimes before sex all those bad memories come to my mind, like before asking me myself " What happen if it doesn't work" I have been working on override those traumatic memories, I know eventually, it will go away.
My implant market the turning point in my regaining control of my life. I am rebuilding new satisfying healthy sex experiences and enjoy my life. The world is new to me and not limited by the restrictive vision of ED anxiety. It amazes me to think back to what my life was like only a couple months ago. I am a happy man now. Only you guys can understand how miserable I was.
LBC2020, Get your implant ASAP with a good surgeon, you will overcome your PTSD of ED soon.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, you are not the only one with PTSD of ED
Good luck man.
Hector
57 yo, PHX, AZ. ED all my life.Used Viagra,Cialis,Trimix failed. Implanted AMS 700CX 21 cm +2 cm RTE on 03/11/2021. Dr Shawn Blick.
Pre/post-op size length 6.0"X 6.5" girth. Cycling at week 2,Sex at week 3.
Cycling full erected 1hr am, 1hr pm

LBC2020
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Re: Implant for mental reasons

Postby LBC2020 » Wed May 19, 2021 6:46 am

hectorm64 wrote:
LBC2020 wrote:Honestly
I’ll be frank...I’m not totally impotent obviously
But the mental toll for me is no unbearable. I couldn’t even imagine doing anytning w a women...I wouldn’t even pay for sex bc it would be over in a few seconds or minutes...either I’d cum or lose it....so that kills the libido

I’m doing the implant even though maybe injections would work for now or more and higher doses kf cialis, but at the end of the day for me, and my obsessive personality that would still make me feel shitty bc I know I would just worry about the next time, the next time, etc.


Can anyone relate to this? I’m
Literally doing this so I can get over this PTSD of ED as I call it...it’s like a phobia now...sure I still get erect and looks totally normal for a certain time but once it’s gone it’s gone....and that mental toll is too great....if I never had sex again and lived on an island I’d still want the implant just to mentally feel like a man...

Does this sound insane?


Hey Man,
I can related to your situation. For some people, maybe sound funny but PTSD of ED is real. I was implanted 9 weeks ago with an excellent result and very smooth recovering time but I am still battling my PTSD of ED. My bionic works perfect but sometimes before sex all those bad memories come to my mind, like before asking me myself " What happen if it doesn't work" I have been working on override those traumatic memories, I know eventually, it will go away.
My implant market the turning point in my regaining control of my life. I am rebuilding new satisfying healthy sex experiences and enjoy my life. The world is new to me and not limited by the restrictive vision of ED anxiety. It amazes me to think back to what my life was like only a couple months ago. I am a happy man now. Only you guys can understand how miserable I was.
LBC2020, Get your implant ASAP with a good surgeon, you will overcome your PTSD of ED soon.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, you are not the only one with PTSD of ED
Good luck man.
Hector


Thanks hector

It’s likely
Going to cost me my marriage which is horrible

Why can’t a women understand

She said she can’t promise me she’ll accept it it I have to do what I have to do

So here we go

I’m so nervous I could honestly bang myself I really am

Overcome w anxiety
Dealing w my family life while trying to literally save my self abs my mental health

I feel like after this successful surgery I’ll be a man and slowly get myself back

With or without my wife but that would really suck...losing your kids and family bc of the horrible effects of ED and depression

Fuck
Finasteride 2005-11
Terrible
Side effects

Been having ED since 2011 with penile shrinkage...was totally impotent for a few months and penis changed
Low libido
Low T
Had kids along the way and recovered some
Function

Implanted w dr Eid June 10 2021


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