libido and fetishes increase with music

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biomedex3090
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libido and fetishes increase with music

Postby biomedex3090 » Tue Nov 07, 2023 12:29 pm

ive stopped listening to music all together and also im on olanzapine 10 mg which lowers my libido. music in particular has increased my abnormal fetishes but when i quit listening it goes away. i also quit porn. thoughts?

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Re: libido and fetishes increase with music

Postby AKJess » Wed Nov 08, 2023 6:30 pm

I think music can certainly increase the mood -- and perhaps influence the tempo for doing the "dirty" lol. Not sure whether it would increase a fetish though, I guess that would be determined on an individual level.
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Re: libido and fetishes increase with music

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Nov 08, 2023 10:47 pm

biomedex3090 wrote:ive stopped listening to music all together and also im on olanzapine 10 mg which lowers my libido. music in particular has increased my abnormal fetishes but when i quit listening it goes away. i also quit porn. thoughts?

what kind of music?

What kind of fetish?

And are you sure you’re using that term correctly? Fetish: a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.
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