Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
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Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Old Guy » Tue Aug 01, 2023 12:21 pm

Someone I know mentioned they bought and use a swing for sex. My thought on a swing was only for kinky bondage stuff. Then I read a few stories about how some folks use a swing. One story just about described my situation.

Guy aged 72, wife aged 70. He mentioned they always loved sex but lately due to physical limitations they were only able to do it once every two months. He mentioned sex in bed had become very uncomfortable for both, regardless of the position used. So, he bought a swing. His wife was not on board, until the day she finally tried it. He said she fell in love with it and had very little discomfort during a good round of sex. Now she asks him to get out the swing at least once a week.

Yep, right now between wife's bad knee, my bad back and limited endurance it sounds like a great solution to return to more frequent sex. She can lay in it; I can stand there and rock the swing back and forth. Bonus if I can find a chair the right height for some oral fun. :D
What do you guys think?
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Randalltx » Tue Aug 01, 2023 2:19 pm

Old Guy wrote:Someone I know mentioned they bought and use a swing for sex. My thought on a swing was only for kinky bondage stuff. Then I read a few stories about how some folks use a swing. One story just about described my situation.

Guy aged 72, wife aged 70. He mentioned they always loved sex but lately due to physical limitations they were only able to do it once every two months. He mentioned sex in bed had become very uncomfortable for both, regardless of the position used. So, he bought a swing. His wife was not on board, until the day she finally tried it. He said she fell in love with it and had very little discomfort during a good round of sex. Now she asks him to get out the swing at least once a week.

Yep, right now between wife's bad knee, my bad back and limited endurance it sounds like a great solution to return to more frequent sex. She can lay in it; I can stand there and rock the swing back and forth. Bonus if I can find a chair the right height for some oral fun. :D
What do you guys think?

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Can you pm or post me on what you bought? Definitely interested in one. We have a large bedroom with cathedral ceiling and a substantial beam running the length of the house upstairs. On the same topic, we just bought and use a yoga chaise. From Amazon.

Thanks Randy
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Old Guy » Tue Aug 01, 2023 8:47 pm

Randalltx wrote:Can you pm or post me on what you bought? Definitely interested in one. We have a large bedroom with cathedral ceiling and a substantial beam running the length of the house upstairs. On the same topic, we just bought and use a yoga chaise. From Amazon.

Thanks Randy


Randy, I haven't purchased one yet. I'm more in the should I or shouldn't I mode. I know my vanilla wife will freak at first. I'm hoping she'll find it an easier method. I do have one picked out though from Amazon. It's called the Belsiang Adult Sex Swing. One has a headrest, one doesn't.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Randalltx » Tue Aug 01, 2023 9:16 pm

Thanks. I think that one is for ceiling hanging only We are definitely getting one. I understand the reluctance from your wife. In my case, I have just bought stuff like this before she could object, then she discovered she liked what we were doing and is now more flexible and supportive of getting her jollies with the help of toys and furniture. Good luck.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Old Guy » Wed Aug 02, 2023 3:12 pm

Yes, that swing is for ceiling hanging only, but I suppose you could rig up to work in a frame.
Can't tell you how many things I've bought for the wife. Some objections to most everything. Only thing that she liked was a vibrator for her clit. Then a suction clit toy was turned down until she tried it. She has now gone through two of them. Tried many times to use a dildo on her "I don't like how they feel." But one time I got her to use one she had a nice orgasm. Bought her a dual density dildo, that thing feels more like my dick than my dick. She won't even touch it or try it. Ugh.
Let me know if you get the swing and how you like it.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby oldbeek » Wed Aug 02, 2023 5:17 pm

I bought a house built by a batchlor that the master bedroom had a fireplace and spa in it and a big hook in the ceiling over the bed. Net chair on a bunge cord? Always wondered.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Al1962 » Wed Aug 02, 2023 6:32 pm

Awesome post.
I hope more ideas can be added to this. These have me thinking. I have to be a little more discreet though with the sex, I mean guest room. I'm still buying house from owner/family member so they are still welcome.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Aug 02, 2023 7:12 pm

oldbeek wrote:I bought a house built by a batchlor that the master bedroom had a fireplace and spa in it and a big hook in the ceiling over the bed. Net chair on a bunge cord? Always wondered.

I heard about something called a "basket fuck".

The woman is suspended in a basket/bag such that her vagina is at the bottom of the bag where there is an opening. The man lies supine on a bed in line with the opening/vagina. The suspension height / bed height is adjusted such that full penetration is achieved.

Here's the good part.

The bag/basket is spun so that the suspension rope twists and is thus shortened, raising the woman up so the man's glans is just barely penetrating her vagina. Releasing the basket starts the woman slowly spinning on the man's penis and as the rope unwinds being lowered onto his penis and at maximum penetration, the spinning is at is fastest. Rotational momentum continues the spinning until the rope is once again twisted and shortened to very shallow penetration. Whereupon, the rotation is reversed and the entire process is repeated ad infinitum (or ad orgasm or ad a frenzy of frustration culminating in explosive climaxes all around, hopefully).

To Al1962, consider hanging a chandelier-like decoration to disguise the true purpose of the skyhook.
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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby stmfttr » Wed Aug 02, 2023 8:54 pm

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Re: Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

Postby Lester33 » Wed Aug 02, 2023 8:56 pm

:idea:
Gee I’m thinking of all kinds of stuff now!!
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