Cmetal: Absolutely not!!!!!!!!! Taking care of yourself and the bride is first order of business. Now that things are under control, I agree with Jeff (he is a wise man) get started and likewise I suggest you begin to pump as a way to bring blood back into the shaft and begin to work things. If you ...

Mike: First welcome! This is a good place and there is much experience here. The best thing is to ask away as there is no wrong or inappropriate question. Like you I am here because on PCa and robotic surgery. I also had nerves spared but still the demon stays around. The docs still have a long way ...

Lee: I agree with Jeff in that I also chose robotic surgery. That treatment is the only way to kill the cancer if it is contain within the prostate. Are their side-effects; yes. There is a new surgery procedure developed by a leading Uro out of NYC that seems to be much better in preserving erection...

Jim: Welcome, this is a great place and you will find plenty of support, humor and experience. Get involved as you can and join the chat room; sometimes it is crowded and other times it is a library with quiet and peace. Guys are frank here as there is little benefit in disguising issues when faced ...

Buck: I hope so. I'm over 5 years post PCa robotic surgery and seriously considering this therapy modality. It may take us longer but it would be worth the wait and effort- and it sounds as though this therapy could be a lot of fun. . . . . Paul- any thoughts for those of us a "few" years ...

Todd: First welcome. This is a good place and there is a lot of support, humor and experience for you to utilize. My ED, like yours, results from PCa and the robotic surgery. This is a journey and you will find a new normal. Just 4 weeks post- surgery and you are getting in the mood. Should mean you...

M. I agree with Paul in that we must listen to our body. I have been pumping for more than 2 years and still carefully do a pump/release each time. The effects of pumping and very good; but we need to approach those outcomes with an understanding that we can also damage a very good friend. . . . I a...

Steve: Glad to hear that things are going well. Your response to stimulation after the implant surgery is most interesting. Nice!! Since I'm not bionic I find the possibility of response to stimulation an encouraging development. As we both know from our PCa treatment the world and rules change. Usi...

Hey Jeff-

Let's see keep it (him) up and the PSA down. Good advice!!

Now the world will learn why it is so difficult to be a guy......

New- welcome. This is a good place and we keep out humor levels up also. It helps.

Regards,

Dick

Sorry Sid. I do not agree.

While all things, except perhaps dark chocolate, can be done to excess or in a "bad" manner the activity is normal and useful.

Dick