Glenn, Thanks so much for the good wishes. I'm doing well still, healing more each day. Still a bit too sensitive to cum again tho. I've found that since the ED my "recharge rate" has gone to a couple of weeks sometimes but I'm hoping that changes for the better once I can use the implant....

Hi, I'm gay too, tho I have a partner so he already knows of course. But we tend to play with a third party now and then and I have this same question about how I'll act when the time comes to get naked and do it. Knowing myself well I've found that being upfront is usually my best bet and I suspect...

Good luck with your impending implant. I'm gay too and I agree that it's wonderful and even necessary to have a good gay friendly surgeon. Mine is great about it and I can talk to him about whatever I need to. I was also worried about the strength of the implant for anal sex so I posted a thread on ...

I had one 2 weeks to the day from my surgery, just touching myself a bit. I wasn't expecting it and was blown away by the sheer intensity and rapidity of it all. Sorta stunned that it happened so easily and strongly. Wow... It felt Good! Made me really happy that I'm still sensitive and will be able...

Hey Tank, I too went with my own Uro/Surgeon. I based my decision on the fact that he'd done my radiation surgery for the cancer a couple years ago and he did a great job. He's an excellent surgeon. I asked him if he was very experienced with implants and he said it didn't "stretch his envelope...

Hi Bob, Thanks for the congratulations and good wishes. It's nice to hear from someone who has had the implant for as long as you have and to hear that you don't even notice it anymore. That's what I wanted to know... It gives me hope that I too will get used to it and be OK as time goes on. I'm gla...

Hey Rich, Yeah I've read that that first pump is something! It's good to know that the ball itself will soften up in time. I'd hoped it would. That'd make a difference. The jpg Bionic told me about was very cool to see btw. It's good to see the difference in size when it's pumped up. That feels good...

Hi Bionic, Thank you for the clear answers. I figured it was a closed system and that maybe this was the case but I needed to know for sure. I already understand the "sitting gently" part... ;) Now I understand the rest of it better. I'l look up the image you offered and see how it looks. ...

Hey Guys, This will seem obvious to those of you with working implants but I'm still new to this and don't understand something and forgot to ask my doctor. At present (2 1/2 weeks out) I'm still deflated and my pump ball is tight and hard and full of liquid. Is this always the case or does the ball...

I had a scrotal incision and to look at it about 14 days post surgery I can barely see it now and the stitches are almost all dissolved. I had very little swelling for only about 3 days and I used a lot of ice to keep it down which made a big difference I think. I can't answer your other question de...