Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast Yeah, that can be a problem. I manage it with variety. I have a collection of images that I refresh from time to time by removing old ones...

Since many of us will be in the older person category, the lady's natural juices may not be as prolific as when younger. So, a modest amount of lubricant will help oil the wheels of progress, so to speak....

I find that with the larger rings, my penis head does not get as 'cold'. There must be some circulation, perhaps just enough. With the smallest rings it will get cold after 30 minutes (as mentioned above). In any case the 30 minute, remove, and start over plan is a healthy one.

It can also help to coat the inside of the tube with a light amount of lube, along with a few drops of water. I have an eyedropper I use for this purpose. This makes it easier for the penis to slide upwards inside the tube.

Thoughts for the OP: • Before I start pumping, I place some liquid water based lube inside the tube, and use an eyedropper to put a few drops of water inside the tube. Coating the inside of the tube lets the semi-erect penis slide up into position easier. • Pumping in stages works well for me, rathe...

My personal solution is a cock ring. I use the Encore Impo-Aid vacuum pump with their silicon rubber cock rings. Cock rings have been discussed elsewhere on the forum, with a variety of experiences. Works for me.

I also use two rings when I want the firmest erection. The Encore rings come in sizes; I use two #4 rings. I have tried a #3 ring for greater tightness, but it is too difficult to remove. Most of the time I use 2 rings also. I put an Encore #5 on first and then a Mach #7. The Mach comes off 1st and...

I think that looking at porn can be stimulating because it often offers something new and different and can aid fantasy. Unfortunately, once one has seen enough of it it is difficult to find something new that stimulates. My wife has a low libido and will only agree to sex once a week. I therefore ...

What is the brand of the pump you are using? I have had best results using a vacuum pump designed for use with constriction rings. I have several kinds(backups just in case). Lately the Encore Deluxe is my goto. It has a cylinder that fits over the main cylinder. When you have reached max pump you ...

Some anti-depressants are in a class called SSRI's. I can offer a little experience with SSRI. Been treated for depression for many years. Two main SSRI's prescribed were mirtazapine (brand name Remeron) and paroxetine (brand name Paxil). In 2015, my psychiatrist suggested that given my stable condi...