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by retexan599
Thu Oct 04, 2018 2:20 pm
Forum: Pumps (Vacuum Erection Device)
Topic: Advice needed for new pump/ring user
Replies: 27
Views: 7599

Re: Advice needed for new pump/ring user

Looking for advice and suggestions on using tension rings with the pump. My boyfriend had prostate surgery in the beginning of March. He has recently started using an inexpensive pump with good results. He/we would like to move on to using the tension rings with the pump and have ordered a set in v...
by retexan599
Thu Oct 04, 2018 2:13 pm
Forum: Pumps (Vacuum Erection Device)
Topic: Pump/penis
Replies: 6
Views: 2738

Re: Pump/penis

I use this, bought from ADW Diabetes for $108. Encore Standard Battery Operated Vacuum Erection Device Item # 44019001 Encore Standard battery operated vacuum erection Device operates easily with only one hand. Simply turn the on/off switch. Includes penile tube with ring ejection system, 4 differen...
by retexan599
Fri Mar 16, 2018 11:35 am
Forum: Emotional and Mental Support
Topic: Depression and E.D.
Replies: 15
Views: 6207

Re: Depression and E.D.

In my life, it has been the reverse for me: depression (and the medications for it) greatly diminished my libido and subsequently led to E.D. A couple of years ago, my psych and I weaned me off of one of the medications (because I really did not need it anymore), and I found that my libido returned ...
by retexan599
Tue Feb 20, 2018 6:22 pm
Forum: Emotional and Mental Support
Topic: Libido issues
Replies: 12
Views: 8753

Re: Libido issues

There is another thread discussing a a similar topic. It may be helpful.

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=9337
by retexan599
Tue Feb 20, 2018 6:13 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How has ED affected your libido?
Replies: 27
Views: 7352

Re: How has ED affected your libido?

For me, my ED/ libido has been affected by several things. The usual of course, an advancing age. Then, there was life stressors and things like divorces. And the prostate radiation removal treatment. Heart problems preclude things like Viagra for me. And for me, a long running battle with depressio...
by retexan599
Tue Feb 20, 2018 5:22 pm
Forum: Pumps (Vacuum Erection Device)
Topic: Do people really have sex with the VED?
Replies: 12
Views: 6145

Re: Do people really have sex with the VED?

I am one of those who cannot take medications because of heart problems. The vacuum pump has been a lifesaver. But like anything else, it takes practice and experimentation to find the right combination of vacuum, rings, time on, time off, preferred lube, etc. Do some searching around this site, whe...
by retexan599
Wed Jan 10, 2018 5:50 pm
Forum: Pumps (Vacuum Erection Device)
Topic: Losing Erection During Sex
Replies: 8
Views: 6795

Re: Losing Erection During Sex

Speaking as someone who has severe venous leak, I found (at the advice of the Pos-T-Vac customer service rep) using two of their ultimate gel rings worked to hold the erection. https://shopping.rejoynmedical.com/postvac-ultimate-gel-support-ring-penis-pump-accessories/ Usually lasts, but sometimes ...
by retexan599
Wed Jan 10, 2018 5:35 pm
Forum: Pumps (Vacuum Erection Device)
Topic: Best Lubricant for Pumping
Replies: 6
Views: 4751

Re: Best Lubricant for Pumping

I use the Encore system with their silicone based rings. I found that silicone based lubes deteriorate the rings so I don't use those lubes. I used water based lubes for quite a while. Lately I am using coconut oil (buy it in the cooking oil section of the grocery store). It does not deteriorate the...
by retexan599
Sun Dec 24, 2017 1:23 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)
Replies: 25
Views: 11802

Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

I had tried the traditional Fleshlight product in the past, but it never felt right, too artificial, wrong texture, whatever. Thought I read a post in Franktalk about the version called a Quickshot and bought it on a whim: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0161NZJVY?th=1 I have used it twice and it...
by retexan599
Sun Dec 24, 2017 12:59 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: PROSTATECTOMY QUESTION....
Replies: 12
Views: 3859

Consider Radioactive Seed Implants

Thought this may be useful: When I was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 1999, I researched the three main approaches: prostatectomy, external radiation, radioactive seed implants. I elected to go with the seed implants (brachytherapy). I was concerned that the surgery might either fail to get all t...

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