RM Yes, rest assured, most men ejaculate urine...but it just doesn't feel the same, does it? too watery, I think. LOL Anyway, yes, as things get better, this will go away. The erection itself will also help with this...the pressure on the urethra helps block it off. Give yourself a few months. Meanw...

So, you had some ED before surgery. and right after you were diagnosed with PCa your ED got worse? I think it was certainly made worse with the DX and for good reason. That diagnosis scares to the roots of our sexuality. It is also sort of like the 'enemy within'. Time will help that...acceptance an...

I would say it's a really good sign. I'm sure it means your nocturnal erections are returning. I think the injections merely intensified and magnified what was already going on. Most men respond to stimulation with an injection to get it to 100%. So, it would make sense that the nocturnal erections ...

Efcnewsman Any more progress on the pump? What is giving you the most trouble? Is it finding the right size ring? Are you getting the vacuum OK? The guys who stick with it often stay with using a pump for life. If you get good at it and can get it to work, it can be fun. Remember, practice, practice...

Cargoman Welcome aboard. Sorry you have to be here, but glad you are! The vast reservoir of knowledge out there that is held by the men who are dealing with ED is astounding. Most docs don't even know half of what we do. I asked my uro if he had ever tried a pump. He snorted in disgust and so I aske...

Guys, Trying pumping before injecting - any pump will do. In fact, if you use an adjustable cock ring, it will hold the medicine in the penis a bit longer - really improving the results. Also with a plumper penis, it is easier to hit the cavernosa - As it was explained to me, it is sometimes like tr...

Bronson, LOL - no, nothing you said was inappropriate. This is Frank talk, after all, and I firmly believe men in our culture need a lot of frankness and openness about the whole topic of sex in general. For many guys who get a partial erection, any cock ring will help get to to a usable firmness. F...

Tony This is a good question. It can be deceptively hard to answer, cause it makes me think about what I do think about. There is the ever present fear - is it gonna work? Am I losing it? Am I gonna lose it? Part of the frustration of this whole experience is that it has changed our mindset in so ma...

I think any new sensation will help with orgasm. Concentrate on what you're feeling and it should help. Also, the stimulation of testicles will enhance everything. Are you taking time off - a day or two - between jacking off and sex? I assume you've thought of that, but just checking. The lassoo sty...

Missionary position seems to be the kiss of death when trying to get it all going again. Have you tried doggy style? Or standing up and entering from behind? Not only does that position keep things tighter in general, but she can keep her legs together to keep things even tighter still. You can also...