Ok thanks - anyone have any experience with that place? I put in for a free consultation but am obviously weary of the situation, knowing someone that had direct experience would be great.

Thanks for both of the replies. I just can't accept the physical side effects that an ssri will cause and was really banking on injections therapy to get me past this. This is the main urology office where I live so unsure on how to proceed. Continued practice with my wife and becoming comfortable a...

So a quick update from today's urology appt. the guy basically said since I have healthy tissue he doesn't want to give me injections being so young. He suggested I take ssri's for the anxiety and keep trying viagra. He said in a couple months if nothing changes then he'd consider injections but fea...

I really appreciate you sharing your story and I hope things can be saved for you. It is really promising to hear that injections had that much of a positive effect. I firmly believe we a bunch of successes with it I can get back to not having it be an anxiety driven situation and can get back to ho...

Thanks for the response. I agree I do fear the long term reliance on something like that. I guess I will have to see what they say on Monday.

I agree - I love her more than anything. Hind sight is 20/20 but I do feel that trying to conceive exasperated the issue - I don't think failing without that would have caused this terrible anxiety to perform again but I am where I am with it and just want to get back to how I was. We are even going...

Thanks for the reply I appreciate it. This is my first trip Monday to the urologist but the website says it is a treatment option they have. To give more background regarding it being performance anxiety - I can masterbate fine as well as we can do other things - just have a rush of anxiety when it ...

Hey everyone, I am new to this site and wanted to quickly share my story. I am 30 years old and have been with my wife since I was 23. In June we began trying to conceive and one failure launched me into this deep performance anxiety cycle. When we first met I had something similar (mainly to it bei...