Hey Everyone, I'm Steve, a 62 year old gay man in Seattle. I had Brachytherapy radiation treatments for the cancer a little over 2 years ago and have slowly lost all ability to have an erection. I've tried everything else and am looking at implants now. Any comments from the gay gallery about sex wi...

Thanks Gregorbehr -

It's good to get your comment. You sound like you know what you're talking about so I will take your word for it. I've gotten other good advice too. Thanks to all who responded so far.

Steve

Thank you Daverx and Bob, for your good wishes and warm welcome. I'm moved by your openness and encouragement. This is the first time I've ever talked with other men with ED and it's a little emotional for me I'm finding. I didn't realize just how alone I felt. And now I don't so much. So thanks, re...

Thanks for your replies guys. I really appreciate the sense of humor. It's a tough subject and staying sane requires some humor I think. OK, Ill take your words for it that I'll be able to get hard enough. Now i just have to get over my nerves about the surgery and facing the potential of infection....

Thanks Greg and Rich for responding to me. I wasn't able to get online for a bit so sorry it's taken awhile to get back to you. I guess I should have stated my question differently. I did so in the Implants section. What I really need to know is if the implants get you hard enough for anal sex as op...

Hi All - I'm looking to find men who have implants and have anal sex with their partners, gay or straight. I need to know how effective the implant is and if it really gets you firm and hard enough to penetrate a male, in my case. I'd love some feedback about this aspect since I can't find anyone wh...

Hi. I'm Steve, a 62 year old gay man, and my story is simple. 3+ years ago I was diagnosed with Prostate Cancer and given 10 years to deal with it. A year later they said we have to do something Now or you're toast. So I had Brachytheraopy. It killed the cancer good but now I'm left totally impotent...