Gang, I'm now 4 months after surgery. No pain on pumping, lost length, and lost ability to orgasm. I've gotten my head around all those since I don't want a re-do, since I can't feel more than touch anyway. No "sexual" sensation. I can tell where it is only. Overriding problem now is that ...

BBB, Nothing I signed said I might lose all sensation. I think it is such a freak occurrence that it was not in anything I signed. I can't even find another occurrence on the internet in any literature or any medical studies. Yes, I am glad that I can please her, even though for 10 years she would d...

Larry,
It's interesting you put it "keep servicing your wife, it's your duty". We tried a vacuum pump and elastic rings but it didn't hold the firmness so it was "oh, well".

Some people here have wondered why I have done nothing to investigate increasing the size of my implant through their various suggestions. I mentioned it before, but I think it is more serious now. It has now been 4 months and I can't feel anything. Or to be more exact, I was experiencing numbness a...

The definition of "TMI" "Most friends, especially those under 65 years old, do not want to know if you dribble after peeing, they do not want to know if you have trouble wiping your butt adequately so that it don't stink. They do not want to know if your penis is too small or if your...

I told my one female friend because she had cancer, like me, in her case, breast cancer with removal of lymph nodes, and then, like me, had reconstruction. After the reconstruction, she told me "I would have never done it if I knew how much it hurts, pretty much continually. And they don't feel...

Thanks, guys. you all said the same thing. Nobody will talk about it. My best friend, Molly, I got because I was a high school teacher and most teachers are women. She called me her "work husband". But when I told her what had to be done, and when I told her I was going in, and when I told...

I had friends, some best friends shun me when I tell them I had to have an implant, and refuse to answer my emails, or acknowledge my surgery in any way. Some female friends (similar age as me, about 62) having had breast cancer, who regaled me with the minute details of their surgery and ultimate r...

Sorry I haven't had time to post: On Friday, a new urologist had a cancellation and I got in to see him at 10:30am. I went for a consultation regarding my implant. I have not been able to get past 3.75 inches, which I had been told would be my maximum with 8 mm in front of the pump. I was told I had...

Joe, nope hard as a rock