Has anyone here actually had the counselling before? I just commenced yesterday and she seems to want to focus on rediscovering my arousal more than anything else. Nothing was mentioned about sensate or CBT, just yet anyway. Nor did she seem to think involving my partner was necessary, just yet, aga...

Well look, this is me. Noticed a decline in EQ at 21 after a bad episode in bed From then on, I was always monitoring my erections Slow and gradual increase in anxiety over the years = slow and gradual decrease in ability Erections would fade without stimulation after about 5-10 seconds Standing ere...

Dude, you're young. In the absence of injury, poor lifestyle or abnormal hormones this is in your brain. I believe so. I mean yes, it could be a weak pelvic floor or something similar but 'venous leak' unless it spots an ACTUAL leak point is just describing the blood going away quicker than it shoul...

Dude!!!!!! The Doppler they did, did they leave the room and tell you to stimulate yourself? Because if not, let's face it, you're on a medical bed being prodded and expected to get hard on your own. The stress alone will eliminate any hope you have. Go to another centre and tell them to leave the r...

Hello everyone! I just wanted to first and foremost say a massive thank you to all those of you who have replied with comments and advice, even the harsher comments as they too are needed and helpful. Tomas, Charles, Jonbald, NOWHARD, oowright, all of you! Thank you. I am writing from the lobby of m...

You seem to speculate with everything possible, and that is something you can keep doing until the end. It's a fact that there's a lot of men suffering from organic ED regardless of getting clean score from the ultrasound. This is because the ultrasound only studies venous conditions. If ultrasound...

Thanks for your words NOWHARD. But I've been thinking about this a lot lately, tying to get to the route cause and you know how you just know your body? I'm sure something physical is at play. And I've just written about it in another thread. I think there could be something systemic wrong with me s...

Because I'm at my wits-end and this condition really threatens to send me to the next stage as it were, I'm really assessing my body carefully and trying to deduce the cause for this. Because I really cannot accept the two 'specialist' teams' diagnosis that this is purely psychogenic. I have a theor...

Sometimes there is no "why". There is only a "what can I do about it?" I've had ED for a long time, not as severe a problem as you have, but still ED is devastating to all men. I remember how well Viagra worked when I first took it. Then on to Cialis (not the daily which didn't ...

I just can't come to grips with this. I can't even work out why this is happening. There was no injury. I have had countless blood tests. I have had two ultrasound tests to say my penis is in good working order. Yet here I am. If someone could just say, yes you have XYZ, definitively, that would alm...