The post above mine calls it right. The practical tips advocated are incredibly useful. As for the emotional/psychological support side of things, this forum is an absolute blessing and, aside from the odd viperous moron, most blokes here strive to give words of encouragement, comfort or wise advice...

I reckon most blokes in our situation, ED in all its various poisonous forms, would gladly sacrifice a limb or a lung or some other vital appendage if it meant they could restore function to the penis. Frankly, if I could do a Donald Trump Art-of-the-Deal style parlay with God, I’d say, “Look, you c...

Fella, I’ve been there and, you’re right, big fun it is not. Have you tried a penis ring? With pills working 70-80% of the time, I’ve considered it myself, and there’s an interesting thread on these sexual-aids in the Members Only section of the forum. I figure these rings are the next logical step ...

I’ve just recalled one myself: The Chancers by Damien Lanigan where an actor is having erection problems. Turns out his impediment is more psychological than physical and one viagra seems to fix his wagon permanently

Are there any books or movies that offer a sensitive or sympathetic look at erection problems or is impotence generally a lazy cypher for evil, abnormality or comic incompetence in most media?

Probably not allowed a second intro message but, f*ck it, here goes: First off I’ve found urologists in the uk pretty useless in diagnosing my complaint. Over a decade, I’ve had testosterone checks, Doppler, blood tests; they’ve all had a poke around in my breadbox, these doctors, and found nothing ...

I’m having problems reconciling what I suspect is venous leak with the fact that, some weeks, I can walk around the house erect, without touching it, and the erection will last up to 18 minutes. I say this not to brag but in search of answers. A lot of the time I can get hard then the boner kind of ...

I appreciate your insights here, gents, though I’m hoping pills will see me through for a few years yet. I’m pretty green when it comes to sex-aids and stuff but those cock rings sound like a decent idea- is there a brand/style you’d advocate? Also, (and I’m braced for a big NO here) are there any e...

I’ll keep it zippy, cut down the guff to give you the picture: bowt 12 years ago I caught shingles. Mid-30s, marine fit, beautiful partner. Shingles killed my boner. Thought it might be a venous leak as the big blue vein (sorry to get technical) would either not inflate at all or inflate a little an...