Was your wife/partner worried about a heightened level to perform after implant?

[KaBoom]

Lets face it, for many of us here, we are in the 45+ demographic, and our ladies are either past menopause or about to go through it.

So us guys here are experiencing a bionic fountain of youth, and have a rocket in our pants any time we want, she might have different emotions about it. Certainly joy and pleasure for the times when we do get it on....but also anxiety as her physique is doing the exact opposite to a fountain of youth.

Mine even asked me if this would make me want to seek other ladies if she cant keep up with my new vigor and drive.

It's a valid question, not that I would do that, but for her to feel some concern and less enthusiasm about the impending implant.

It's role reversal now. For years I was the one anxious about my non ideal bedroom performance towards her, and soon it could be the other way around....she worries about her not as frequent desire being a let down to me.

I imagine others here in our demographic have had similar contrast within you and partner. She loves me and is ok to get this done, but she worries.

[edjohn]

Well there are those guys who somehow keep popping wood until 80 with a little Viagra and those ladies who keep getting wet until then with a little testosterone... so while it's not a majority I suppose, it's an issue everyone faces in one respect or another. The odds are one partner will need to fuck for decades longer than the other and we all have to ask those questions eventually. Until the inevitable, both need to be proactive in optimizing hormones first. Men actually have it worse naturally... anybody can hypothetically treat libido and sexual sensitivity with meds and hormones, but without a functioning cock the equation still falls apart. At least this means the playing field is level again and each of us have to decide how much we care about our own sexuality as well as our partner's pleasure and choose not to give up.

[1sfman]

Well, I'm 75 and my wife is 74. Our sex life had greatly diminished over the past 5 years as my ED problems increased. When you get to the point where you know (and she knows too) that my dick was going to fail, even if it starts out reasonably erect, it just starts to take the incentive away. We went from a fairly twice a week schedule down to maybe "trying" every 6 to 8 weeks. I so deeply regret wasting so much time before IPP.

I'm just past 8 weeks post-op, have had PIV sex after the 6 week wait, but I still have quite a bit of discomfort, so still not the best. But, it gets better day by day. The good thing however, is my wife is very interested now! She now has a newfound interest in at least getting back to at least a twice a week schedule. Who knows, may be more often. So, I guess it is all depending upon the individual. Clearly, there was/is not a worry on her part about a heightened level to perform. Makes me happy and I can't wait for the continued improvement and lessening of discomfort for those occasions to become regular events once again .