When your penis seems too short for PIV

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Woodicould
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When your penis seems too short for PIV

Postby Woodicould » Thu Aug 28, 2025 10:40 am

Lately the wife and I have trouble with me getting into her. She is heavy set. I have to take Cialis to get hard and when hard I am only about 4 inches or a little more. We mostly do missionary. Last night after missionary failed, we tried me standing by the side of the bed and her at the edge. That was not successful either. She doesn't want to get on top of me because of her weigh and also she has artificial knees. I am also using a Xialla.
Any suggestions as to how I might be able to get a bit more length? Pump more? Use injections? Get a strap on?
If others have had this problem and found a solution, I would like to hear it.
Thanks.
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Re: When your penis seems too short for PIV

Postby Old Guy » Thu Aug 28, 2025 12:06 pm

You could try a wedge to lift her bottom up. There are penis extenders worn like a condom to gain inches. A strap on would satisfy her but like an extender you get nothing. Also consider a sex swing if you have a place to mount one. A good one will hold 400+ pounds if hung from a ceiling joist. Adjust the height so your penis is pointing straight into her vagina.
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Re: When your penis seems too short for PIV

Postby Kodixx » Fri Aug 29, 2025 1:55 pm

Woodicould, are you using a VED ? If so, is it providing additional length ?

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Woodicould wrote:Lately the wife and I have trouble with me getting into her. Any suggestions as to how I might be able to get a bit more length? Pump more? Use injections? Get a strap on?
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