I need an advice

[España1980]

Hello, for 9 months in which I hurt myself in a sexual relationship and it resulted in a nodule of corporal fibrosis, now it has also led to small Peyronie's plaques. I've been reading Frank Talk several hours a day, in such a way that this has become an obsession, I hardly do anything other than think about my penis and the solution that can be given to it. in such a way that I am also medicated for anxiety and depression. I would like to be calm and dedicate myself to my mind at first, but I know from what I have read that with fibrosis the size of the penis decreases rapidly and is unrecoverable even with an implant. That's why I'm overwhelmed, I should be ready for an implant but I think I'm not. and I read the stories of those implanted and I consider them brave in the face of such a decision. Of course I have erectile dysfunction plus minor deformities, but of course I believe that this is a condition that must be attacked quickly and that it is mentally destructive because it sees your penis being consumed. I have stopped enjoying the things in life of anything and I barely leave the house. And I don't know what to do if I dedicate myself to my mind, which I can't, or give a solution to my penis, which I don't see psychologically prepared either, I don't see a way out of my discomfort, I see very happy stories of people and very sad stories about infections and problems with the implant. I need advice from you since all of you have gone through or will be going through similar things in this forum. Sometimes I think my life is over and other times I think no, that I should solve this, but my mind is not up for surgery. I need advice please. Did you all consider that you were psychologically prepared for surgery? I think I am not prepared for surgery or to see how my penis is consumed and I become totally impotent. I am in a labyrinth with no way out. I need advice please on how to find a way out of this situation

[AmansinCali]

Espana,

You didn't give us your age, advice and considerations are somewhat different for a real young guy, but basically the same. If you have not discovered the great post by Minnesota #2, do yourself a favor and carefully read his post "IMPLANT JOURNEY - TITAN - 27 years old - Surgery 9/20/2022." under Implants. He is 27 years old, had the surgery the same day I did, but I am 50 years older than he is. Minnesota and I because of date of implantation is the same, we have been bouncing recovery data off of each other with our goal to inform prospective implant candidates the best we can. It is a must read especially for a young man.. One key difference is Minnesota got to use his new implant with a new partner only 25 days after surgery! My doctor wants me to wait 6 weeks. Minnesota reports everything from BJ, HJ and penetration when without a problem and was completely natural, she never knew and he said the orgasm was outstanding.

So far I am very glad I went through the procedure, and I know Minnesota is too. You are doing the right thing; you have to become comfortable having an irreversible operation. You will also learn here selecting a doctor is your most important decision, go with a high volume implant surgeon and when you do trust him to do what is best for you.

[España1980]

Espana,

You didn't give us your age, advice and considerations are somewhat different for a real young guy, but basically the same. If you have not discovered the great post by Minnesota #2, do yourself a favor and carefully read his post "IMPLANT JOURNEY - TITAN - 27 years old - Surgery 9/20/2022." under Implants. He is 27 years old, had the surgery the same day I did, but I am 50 years older than he is. Minnesota and I because of date of implantation is the same, we have been bouncing recovery data off of each other with our goal to inform prospective implant candidates the best we can. It is a must read especially for a young man.. One key difference is Minnesota got to use his new implant with a new partner only 25 days after surgery! My doctor wants me to wait 6 weeks. Minnesota reports everything from BJ, HJ and penetration when without a problem and was completely natural, she never knew and he said the orgasm was outstanding.

So far I am very glad I went through the procedure, and I know Minnesota is too. You are doing the right thing; you have to become comfortable having an irreversible operation. You will also learn here selecting a doctor is your most important decision, go with a high volume implant surgeon and when you do trust him to do what is best for you.

I am 45 yeras oldIf I have read their stories, they are very brave people. I have key points: the corporal fibrosis that makes me not be able to delay in my decision, but at the same time my mental state that makes me not be prepared. then it is a continuous war with myself. I have become obsessed in such a way that there is only my penis in my life right now I have everything abandoned. That's why I don't know how you led your normal life. if they became obsessed like me or it was just another part of their life and what they did to control themselves mentally and make the decision

[Old Guy]

Sounds like your mental anguish is all concerning your physical status. Find a men's sexual health doctor, talk to them about options. Bottom line is if it comes to implant is once you heal it will be the best thing you ever did.
Remember that many of the posts here about issues are the few. Thousands of implanted men don't post here and are happy using their new tool with no issues.