Marriage vs Implant a great concern in India

[penitreatment]

Most of the young guys are suffering from ED in India like me. Marriage is a great concern for the guys having penile implant in India. This treatment for ED is socially unacceptable in the country. Most of the young guys are worried in both the situations; One is erectile dysfunction and other is it's treatment due to embarrassment towards his wife if she found the implant in their young age. Most men afraid of getting an implant because it's permanent, complications in surgery, revision after malfunctioning and too much cost.
What young guys should do?
Seniors who got implant share views on the following points.
1- Before marriage the guys should go for implant or not for sexual bonding with wife.
2- after marriage can guys conceal the implant for rest of their life with wife?
3- How they overcome both worries; ED and Embarrassment after implant if wife found the implant?

Excuse for English

[TheCanalGuy]

If you have your implant before the marriage and provided that it is inserted using a penoscrotal incision and the pump is placed behind testicles, not in front of them, it is impossible for a wife that is not a trained doctor in male implants, to figure out that you have an implant. Of course you have to make sure you don't inflate the implant just in front of her face, but that's pretty much all.

[advaita]

Or maybe, a malleable implant, cheaper, no pump felt in the scrotum, and by the way no risk being seen inflating...

[TheCanalGuy]

Or maybe, a malleable implant, cheaper, no pump felt in the scrotum, and by the way no risk being seen inflating...

I have read that's actually the preferred approach in India both for the cost and the simplicity to implant it and to use it. Unfortunately the drawback is that the satisfaction level for a malleable VS a fully fledged 3 pieces implant is very low. The other advantage of malleable is that they generally don't break as there is limited mechanic parts. I personally would not like a malleable for me if I could afford a 3 pieces such as Titan or AMS. As a matter of fact, I have been implanted 6 days ago by an expert surgeon and I couldn't be happier.

[wolfpacker]

You will not be able to conceal an implant from your wife forever. I think the perspectives you'll get on marriage are different here since this is a forum with mostly American/western men where we marry for love vs the more typical arranged marriage in India where you may not know or trust your wife as much. I would think most men here trust their wife deeply and would not want to hide something like the implant, and embarrassment over the ED issue would not be as much of a concern since it is with your trusted wife. Again, probably different from an arranged marriage situation in India.

Having said all that, I do think you will have no problem concealing the implant for the first several sexual encounters with your new wife. It's a lot easier to tell her about the implant in your dick when you've already successfully had sex with her several times.

[Fourtytwo00]

I'm not implanted but I'm married since 15 years, so let's be honest: you can't. It's possible to hide a light / mild ED as long as pills works fine. But an implant it's not even worth the effort with your wife IMHO. Likely she can't wake you up in the middle of the night with a blowjob, she can't test your morning wood nor play with your dick while you're driving in the traffic. ED sucks. But you can bang her at will once implanted. So if you're going to marry find someone with whom you can share the solution you found. My main reason to go for an implant is being relieved from the psychological toll of ED. Marriage is not like random sex with a lover or a *professionist*. I don't want to hide myself like a thief when I'm at home. I'm not going to pay 30k for that.

[Cnidium]

As a US citizen, I think the most important things for an implant being a problem or not in a relationship is confidence. Im in the younger crown (got mine late 20s), and my post surgery girlfriend didnt care at all that I had it. I also didn't care that I had it. As with most things with women, if you are confident in your situation then they dont care. Maybe its different in India.

[Lost Sheep]

If you have your implant before the marriage and provided that it is inserted using a penoscrotal incision and the pump is placed behind testicles, not in front of them, it is impossible for a wife that is not a trained doctor in male implants, to figure out that you have an implant. Of course you have to make sure you don't inflate the implant just in front of her face, but that's pretty much all.

You really think so? Some women like to fondle a man's scrotum, explore, take his balls in her mouth, etc. Maybe she will not know what it is, but I opine that she will know it is something other than what you were morn with. On top of that, it would be noticeable to any woman with any amount of sexual experience (her own or from talking with other women) that a man who stays rigid after ejaculation is, at least, uncommon.

[Lost Sheep]

Or maybe, a malleable implant, cheaper, no pump felt in the scrotum, and by the way no risk being seen inflating...

Well, remember that a malleable is stiff ALL THE TIME. Whether it is bent down, over to the side, wherever it points, it stays pointed there and does not "dangle" like a natural penis or even an uninflated implanted penis.

What I am suggesting is that any person who has seen a flaccid penis (which most women have, changing diapers of babies if notwhere else) will know something is different with a malleable.

[Gt1956]

Or maybe, a malleable implant, cheaper, no pump felt in the scrotum, and by the way no risk being seen inflating...

Well, remember that a malleable is stiff ALL THE TIME. Whether it is bent down, over to the side, wherever it points, it stays pointed there and does not "dangle" like a natural penis or even an uninflated implanted penis.
What I am suggesting is that any person who has seen a flaccid penis (which most women have, changing diapers of babies if notwhere else) will know something is different with a malleable.

I'm with LS. I can't understand anyway a woman that has changed a male childs diaper or talked with a married woman can miss a malleable implant. There isn't anything natural about it.