Too soon to implant? I can't go on psychologically

[considering89]

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[anotherguy]

My suggestion is.. get the implant. The sooner, the better.

I would have liked to have gotten mine years ago.

[LuisFernandez]

1. Get tested for a venous leak
2. Check your hormones
3. Try injections, they're awesome

[hectorm64]

Gentlemen,

My question for your feedback is this: For my situation below, is it too soon to be thinking about an implant?

Situation:

- 31 years old
- ED started April 2021 in a new relationship
- So far been told ED is psychological but have not had ultrasound (scheduled for 7/12)
- Google research seems to show this could be PIED (porn induced ED), for which the "cure" is stopping porn and rewiring to a human being. I stopped porn in February 2021 (4.5 months)
- ED is not getting better (probably worse)
- Without pills, I can hardly get an erection. I cannot get hard via masturbation. I get hard via oral sex but lose it quickly
- Cialis is not effective
- Sildenafil (100mg) allows me to have sex almost every time, but the erections have been getting lower in quality. I do not have confidence in bed. Sex is more about not failing than enjoying myself and pleasing my partner
- My girlfriend and I want to get married soon. I'd like to propose to her by Sept/Oct 2021 and get married in early 2022
- I am severely depressed because of the ED and unable to focus on work, hobbies, taking care of basic life duties
- I do not want to take pills long term. Even if effective, I want to be able to have sex on demand and be more dominant/assertive with my girlfriend
- My girlfriend and my sex drives are off the charts. We want sex daily and if we could, we'd have sex 2x a day during the week and 3x/day on weekends (seriously)

Plan:
- I cannot carry ED into marriage. I cannot subject her to this, and I also will not be a good husband in my current mental state
- We will likely get married in March/April 2022
- If my ED (if psychological/PIED) is not resolved/significantly improved in January 2022, I will implant (I'll talk to her about this first)
- If the ultrasound on 7/12 reveals a venous leak or other medical cause, I will implant ASAP and put this behind me

Question:
Would I be moving too quickly into an implant with the above plan? Has anyone implanted in a similar situation as this?
Thank you in advance.

Hi Considering89,

You asked the same questions on the link below. Did you read, everybody's reponses on the link below. They provided you with very good information.

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=17164

This is not a game forum, we take every single concern very serious. We take time from our busy schedule to write the best response to help our FT members.
Thank you
Hector

[confused95]

Hey mate.
I know the feeling, as I’m also a sufferer of psychological ed: super erections in the morning (especially when I take 5mg Cialis, and some problems when I masturbate due to anxiety so 20% of the times I lose erection, I’m also on SSRI because I could not cope with the anxiety and depression this awful situation has led me in).
Implant is an amazing long term solution but keep it as your last resort.
Make sure you dive deep in the causes of your ed with a good doctor, if it is psychological evaluate to start a therapy with a sex therapist and take into consideration SSRI, but please also consider that those meds usually give you some sexual side effects (thanks God, not in my case).

[irishguy]

Hey man I have wrote a reply In your last thread and sent you a pm, as I am your age and I got the implant at 26 I could help you but I think you want everyone to say yes get it!!! You are rushing into an implant because you are rushing into marrying this girl simple as... you are making a massive mistake in my opinion... you haven’t gone to urologists or councillors and have only used pills... if she is the one then she will wait and be patient with you... I don’t know what else to say...

[Pquigs]

Hi.
I could still get erections but was we’re starting to lose them quickly

I was diagnosed with a Venus lake and later a second
I may have jumped the gun a little early but I decided to put it implant plan in right away

I am concerned about loss of size but I knew the longer I waited the shorter I may be.

I would bet you have a Venus leak and pills won’t work well long term for Venus leak.

I would schedule an appointment or a couple appointments with a sexual therapist for you and your significant other to discuss.