New to implants

[Pquigs]

Hi guys.

I recently decided to get an implant After struggling with ED for a couple of years I am a divorced 56-year-old can someone tell me what it is like to date with a penile implant or woman turned off are you telling most of the woman you are dating when it comes time to intimacy and how do they received the news.

How is the implant accepted. I would hope the right woman Would understand and be accepting

Thx Pquigs

[ViaSwiss]

There have been a few threads on this in the past, typically guys say that a women will never know as long as they wont play with your scrotum, where they would feel a 3rd ball.

I'm about to find out firsthand just how dating goes with a newly installed implant myself. I don't plan on telling anyone unless I have been with them for a while and feel like the relationship has long term potential.

[Lost Sheep]

I would be interested to know the answer to your question,

woman turned off are you telling most of the woman you are dating when it comes time to intimacy and how do they received the news.

How is the implant accepted. I would hope the right woman Would understand and be accepting

I have found that women are incredibly supportive if they feel desired, trusted, respected and safe. (Especially ones who have been around long enough to have experienced a man with ED, which gives a woman a reality based perspective.)

I went on a dating site and was honest about my inability to have sex and that I was intending to have an implant to fix that problem. My honesty and candor was commented on several times as "brave" and "refreshing".

During my dating day (pre-internet) when the potential for sex came up, I would explain that my penis did not always work perfectly. If a woman had decided to invite you into her bed.vagina, such a revalation, delivered well, willl not change her mind at that point. She has already passed you into her circle of sexual candidates worthy of an audition. No one ever changed her mind at that point on me. Of course, how diplomatically you bring up the subject of sex (and the subject of ED) is EXTREMELY influential on her decision-making process.

Don't waste a day of a potential relationship just because opening the discussion about sex (and ED) may be a little difficult. Make her feel trusted, and respected. (By respecting her)

Think how this line would play with a woman: "I REALLY want to pleasure you sexually-I hunger for your touch. I have to warn you that my penis does not always work as well as we might like, but I promise I will make every effort to make sure you are satisfied. I adhere to the rule that "Ladies always cum first." Then make sure your cunnilingus and masturbation techniques are adequate to the task. If you are unpractised in those arts, ask if she is willing to teach you by saying, "Would you be willing to tell me what works best for you? I am eager to learn to please YOU, above all other women."

Sex is a cooperative activity. It takes two. working in harmony.