Michael
You are in a very shitty situation. Your wife is mean and selfish. She is withholding way more than sex from you. She is controlling your life and making sure you dont have any happiness. Even if you gained 2 inches with a VED nothing is going to change. My suggestion to you is find a “professional” woman to assist you. If not for any other reason, to prove to yourself that this is not your issue at all. 5 inches is enough to both give and receive pleasure. Maybe this will give you confidence to eventually move on. There are plenty of tin cans in the dump. Counseling will never help this women. She has a deep rooted hatred at something and has made you the poster child. You owe it to yourself to be happy and to no longer be her whipping boy. Then buy her a real dildo and tell her to go fuck herself. Sorry if this sounds cruel, but maybe thats what you need to hear !
Bandit
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Born 1958, married. Prostate Cancer. RRP November/2014. PSA undetectable since. Implant May/2017 AMS700LGX 18 cm + 1.5 cm RTEs.
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Bandit wrote:Michael
You are in a very shitty situation. Your wife is mean and selfish. She is withholding way more than sex from you. She is controlling your life and making sure you dont have any happiness. Even if you gained 2 inches with a VED nothing is going to change. My suggestion to you is find a “professional” woman to assist you. If not for any other reason, to prove to yourself that this is not your issue at all. 5 inches is enough to both give and receive pleasure. Maybe this will give you confidence to eventually move on. There are plenty of tin cans in the dump. Counseling will never help this women. She has a deep rooted hatred at something and has made you the poster child. You owe it to yourself to be happy and to no longer be her whipping boy. Then buy her a real dildo and tell her to go fuck herself. Sorry if this sounds cruel, but maybe thats what you need to hear !
Bandit
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62yo, married 41 yrs. Urolift (x4) 8/12/19. AMS 700CX 15cm (no RTE) penoscrotal 10/28/19, Frisco, TX. PD 1995/ED 2011. Cialis helped but hinged. (1995)L:6/G:5.5+, (2019)Pre-op L:5/G:4.5, (2/2020)L:6.0/G:5.0
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Bandit and Waynetho,
It took me some time to think of what to say since I was confused. You see, I was married before. And my first wife was pretty much the same. She told me how lousy I was in bed and very soon said "you can put it in and do whatever you want, but you're not pleasing me." I ended up being a premature ejaculator and often impotent. She would get out a vibrator as soon as I entered her and said "without electricity, I could never be satisfied with someone as lousy as you". After 9 years, she started having sex with someone else and I didn't know for months, even though she was gone all weekend frequently. She said she was with "the girls".
Anyway, the thought that my current wife was the same told me it was my fault. Now I realize I just kept picking the same kind of woman.
Not much more to say...
It took me some time to think of what to say since I was confused. You see, I was married before. And my first wife was pretty much the same. She told me how lousy I was in bed and very soon said "you can put it in and do whatever you want, but you're not pleasing me." I ended up being a premature ejaculator and often impotent. She would get out a vibrator as soon as I entered her and said "without electricity, I could never be satisfied with someone as lousy as you". After 9 years, she started having sex with someone else and I didn't know for months, even though she was gone all weekend frequently. She said she was with "the girls".
Anyway, the thought that my current wife was the same told me it was my fault. Now I realize I just kept picking the same kind of woman.
Not much more to say...
6/2013 DaVinci Radical Prostatectomy sacrificing erectile nerve. 5/16/2017 AMS 700 MS series 15cm (with 4 RTEs) No orgasm unless after extended time. Am now 4.5 inches (after an hour, maybe 5 inches; 5.5 implanted). Lots of hand arthritis. Age 65
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