Cleared for sex today. Have whirlwind of thoughts, concerns, and excitement after first masturbation post-surgery.

[duke_cicero]

Johnny, this is a huge milestone! I'm happy for you. I think the note about the toy being considerably tighter than a human is the right thing to keep in mind. Given the rigidity of the Rigi10 compared to the Genesis, I'd be very surprised if this issue continued under actual circumstances. I don't think I've ever used a toy like the one you described with my implant, but it wouldn't surprise me if I had something of the same experience. I wonder if something a bit looser might be better?

Don't lose heart. Keep it slow and steady. You're still really in the early days, in the grand scheme! This is brand new for the part of your body that doesn't think—which is most of it!

[Waiting789]

Also when you mention buckling are you referring only to instability at the base or you mean that the implant is actually bending in it's mid-part?

I have the same doubt