Strange Timing

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
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Kodixx
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby Kodixx » Tue Sep 02, 2025 4:23 pm

ElbowRoom, I wasn't trying to do that. Nor do I think that I know more about your marriage than you do.

I was just trying to be helpful.

- Chuck
ElbowRoom wrote:Please don’t try to “save my marriage” over the internet as if you know more about it than I do.
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 6 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks

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ElbowRoom
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby ElbowRoom » Tue Sep 02, 2025 8:30 pm

Kodixx wrote:ElbowRoom, I wasn't trying to do that. Nor do I think that I know more about your marriage than you do.

I was just trying to be helpful.

- Chuck
ElbowRoom wrote:Please don’t try to “save my marriage” over the internet as if you know more about it than I do.


I get it, I apologize if I jumped the gun a little. I have done everything humanly possible to salvage the situation and it's frustrating, so if my fuse is too short ATM, again I'm sorry for that.

I know with rare exceptions people on here just really want to help.
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C

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Wooody
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby Wooody » Wed Sep 03, 2025 1:07 am

ElbowRoom, I went through a similar situation with my now ex-wife. 7 years ago, and we remain friends.

Life is short and you only live once. I'm much happier now and not just because of my IPP. Find your happiness and live life! Good luck to you!
Titan Classic 22cm + 1cm RTEs - 2/25 - Dr Karpman, Bay Area CA

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ElbowRoom
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby ElbowRoom » Wed Sep 03, 2025 11:11 am

Wooody wrote:ElbowRoom, I went through a similar situation with my now ex-wife. 7 years ago, and we remain friends.

Life is short and you only live once. I'm much happier now and not just because of my IPP. Find your happiness and live life! Good luck to you!


Thanks. It’s been several years of frustration and I’m looking forward to living life on my terms again.

I never expected to be single coming up on 60 years old, I haven’t dated in 20 years and I’m not sure what to expect out there!
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C

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Re: Strange Timing

Postby Old Guy » Wed Sep 03, 2025 3:13 pm

Damn, what a strange twist to life. On one hand I find it awesome that you are in agreement and the breakup is amicable, but on the other hand it's sad that's how it has to be.
Good luck with the surgery. Hopefully you will find a willing partner to give it a test ride.
Nov. 8, 2019
5+ years, Coloplast Titan OTR
Married 37 years to my beautiful young bride
Always here to answer questions if you PM me

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Kodixx
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby Kodixx » Wed Sep 03, 2025 9:36 pm

ElbowRoom, hey no worries. Thinking about how difficult that situation must be, I feel really bad for you, and wish you big success at moving forward !

- Chuck
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 6 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks

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ElbowRoom
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Re: Strange Timing

Postby ElbowRoom » Wed Sep 03, 2025 9:50 pm

Kodixx wrote:ElbowRoom, hey no worries. Thinking about how difficult that situation must be, I feel really bad for you, and wish you big success at moving forward !

- Chuck


Thanks brother!
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C


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