FMLFML85 wrote:What if she’s hyper critical because she knows the situation. Bad feelings from your inability to get a erection in the past may influence her when you guys finally have sex. She could be brutal and condescending as a-posed to someone knew that didn’t have any emotional investment in the situation. A bad experience with your x could potentially do a lot of damage compared to a new fling. Plus with a new girl she probably won’t even know what a implant is and you may be able to have some casual sex without ever explaining it.
I rather doubt your premise. Since she is communicating and indicating a desire to get back together it is unlikely she would be doing that just to get in a few digs to an ex.
Of course, some women are sufficiently vindictive to do that, but thankfully, it is (in my experience) fairly rare for a woman to invest a lot of energy in that sort of nonsense.
I do hope, for jimmi85's sake that you are wrong about her. But I do take your caution as prudent nonetheless.
Jimmi85 be watchful for signs. But be hopeful for your future happiness, as are we all.