Implant and loyalty

[oldbeek]

I had ED my whole life and got my first implant when I was 29. At the time I was in a relationship that was a little rocky for a number of reasons. And I will admit that when I got my implant, I did think about my new potency and I wanted more experience with different women. Well, I got it. My girlfriend at the time and I broke up and I went on something of a spree for about a year. By the end of that year, it had become clear to me that sex outside the context of a good relationship is just not that important, nor is it even really that enjoyable when the novelty wears off. I got back with the ex and we were together another three years. We broke up, I believe for the last time, this last summer, and it had nothing to do with me wanting to sow any oats.

I just had a revision surgery a week ago and I'm recovering well. I'm looking forward to dating at a slow pace and getting to know someone and developing a relationship, but I'm not going to fire up the dating apps or be desperate to fling myself into the arms of random women just so I can have steady sex.

It's perfectly understandable that, after years of struggling with ED, a man might want to go a little crazy when he finally fixes the problem. I'd say, maybe a short period of casual dating is just what such a man needs to cement his confidence in himself, to learn the value of sex and relationships and to figure out exactly what he wants out of life without the cloud of ED obscuring the picture.

Thank you very much for that detailed answer!!! Exactly what I wanted to know. Just a short question left… does one of your girls ever mentioned your implant in a negative way? or are you upfront with her telling her that you have an implant or do you hide it... I guess I would tell it from the beginning cause everything else wouldnt be fair to her I guess.
But I could imagine that some of the girls are afraid or it s maybe akward for them. I will have it very soon and I am just wondering how my future will be… for sure much better then in my actual situation!

I think the only akward thing is that you must pump it... if she will see it, I think it s maybe not very sexy for her but after it s hard she will enjoy for sure

Rocco, don't worry about pumping it up. when I am Horney, I pump up 70%. it wears in my pants just fine that way. Angle it to the side or down. If I was dating I would start the evening that way. Just takes a few pumps to get rock hard from there.

[Lost Sheep]

A few women are put off by the fact that your erection is not spontaneous (she has no "pride of authorship"), which, to many women seems to be reassuring of your desire for her. Very few have expressed that pride of authorship. But the assurance that you truly desire her is a strong need, I have been told very emphatically.

Some men may be lucky enough that even if they don't get full spontaneous erections with their implant (almost never gonna happen), they get some degree of semi-erection that can show their arousal level to the woman, as well as other things such as pre-cum - which I dribble significantly when aroused. If there's any indication of arousal, even if it's not a full erection, the woman can know she was responsible.

Exactly right, Waynetho.

My girlfriend has observed the condition of my scrotum (seems fascinated by it's tightening, loosening, swelling, etc at different stages in our love-making) and my nipples and glans. She uses these as indicators that I am aroused and enjoys the observations immensely.

I never noticed my scrotum changes before and only peripherally noticed my nipples.

Now, I have ALWAYS noticed my partners' nipples!