DonDon wrote:I wasted way too much time trying all the other solutions. 9 months bionic now, and very happy. Lost erections due to non-nerve sparing RP. (My digital exam had big lumps on the right side and had to take them out.) To echo a prior comment, the loss of an erection on demand was the most devastating mental trauma I have ever gone through. I liken it to losing a limb. My wife had no idea how important normal frequent automatic sex was for me. She has never turned me down for sex: night, morning, lunch, sober, drunk, no matter. Most women, I believe, lack the mental understanding of what it is like to have a penis, much less losing a penis.
I have to give it to her though, upon watching me take pill after pill, penile pain and headaches, vacuum pump my dick almost daily and put silicone bands on it only to have it flop around at the hinge point, inject needles into my penis time after time and be spread-eagle when I got hard and ready for sex, she has really gotten the message. Now with erections on command lasting as long as I want, she has a sincere appreciation of how important my erections are, my orgasms are, and satisfying her is to me. She now "takes care of my penis" as if it were her own. She gives me plenty of penile attention. She likes to get it about half pumped and play with it and can feel when I want to pump it all the way and penetrate her. I know she has more orgasms now than before, maybe an many as when we were younger. She treats my penis like her penis and it satisfies her to see me satisfied.
My advice is, treat your implant like it is the most important thing in your life. Get your partner involved. Make her appreciate its new automatic firmness. To maintain length, I pump up every morning, usually in the shower, and leave it pumped up through breakfast. She sits there and sees how important it is to me. How I will do anything to keep it working and in top shape. She is used to me walking around with no underwear and my penis at full attention. It turns her on and I get comments like "We are going to find a good use for that tonight," or "I can still feel it from last night," or, the best one, "I am so glad you got your implant, you are so happy now and so am I."
DonDon
Sounds like you and I are some of the luck ones to have wives so understanding. I can see my wife with the same support as yours. WE ARE SO BLESSED.
70 y/o married 51 yrs. pills quit working. Implanted 5/21/18 in Nashville by ( Dr. Lowe now retired) AMS 700 LGX 21CM+2CM, RTE's