Blow Job question

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby David_R » Sun Dec 09, 2018 9:23 pm

Wow! Very erotic posting, oldbeek! :D

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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Dec 26, 2018 6:07 pm

oldbeek wrote:I love to be on my hands and knees and her with her head on a pillow. I just screw her mouth while she is gently massaging my swaying nuts and shaft. Last time I had it when she wanted it was 5 years ago. God I miss blow jobs. My wife had an extremely active sex life. Now she says she is done and throws out her calculation to me that she fucked me over 80,000 times and says she is retired now. When she does get in the mood, she loves oral and I love to have pussy juice from my eye brows to my chin. Oh to be young again.

I might suggest you think about a reply calculation. She has given you at least 80,000 orgasms. Figure out how many times you have climaxed and she has not. Give her that figure as a "debt" you owe to her (or to womankind in general) and you want to redeem that debt (preferably with her).

Couch the proposal however you think it will play best in her mind.

Good luck.
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby oldbeek » Wed Dec 26, 2018 11:22 pm

She has never not climaxed. First 30 years she usually climaxed twice or 3 times. God she loved to fuck. The corrected number is 20,000 times. On an average we had sex every day of the week and when younger 3-4 times a day. Married 57 years.
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby dtwarren1942 » Sun Dec 30, 2018 5:29 pm

My wife occasionally will lick and put her mouth around my glans but will not go down any further because she has a low gaging threshold. I find it only partially enjoyable which is offset by the frustration.
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Larry10625 » Sun Dec 30, 2018 5:37 pm

Bob1974 wrote:I had an ex that loved giving me 2 or 3 BJs a day and would always swallow and lap up every last drop. She was a real psycho though and we had to part ways but I swear she could suck start a leaf blower. My wife will give me 2 or 3 quicky BJs a month maybe but not because she loves doing it, it's because she loves me and loves making me happy. I just wish she made me happy more often. :D If I don't cum in 5 minutes or less though, her and I are both probably out of gas and both of us walking away frustrated, her because she's tired and me from trying to concentrate on cumming quickly before she's gives up. It's always kind of awkward with ED and many times she wants to go down on me but timing isn't good and preformance anxiety can be a factor if conditions aren't right. It's awkward when you need to take drugs to make it happen. It's also strange as I can't seem to cum getting a BJ unless I'm standing up on my toes... I know its weird. Would love to be able to lay back and relax until I could cum getting a BJ like the old days but hasn't happened in years.



WOW, wish I could have met your ex. This one time, I was on the phone with my Commanding Officer and my wife walked over to me, got down on her knees, opened my bath robe and started feasting. OMG, I hope he wasn't saying anything important. You made me think of that when you talked about the timing not being good.

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Re: Blow Job question

Postby oldbeek » Mon Dec 31, 2018 1:01 am

dtwarren1942 wrote:My wife occasionally will lick and put her mouth around my glans but will not go down any further because she has a low gaging threshold. I find it only partially enjoyable which is offset by the frustration.
. Licking and sucking on just the glans along with stroking and ball play is better than deep throating anyway. Proper cock sucking should be taught in high school. :roll:
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Larry10625 » Mon Dec 31, 2018 7:19 am

oldbeek wrote:
dtwarren1942 wrote:My wife occasionally will lick and put her mouth around my glans but will not go down any further because she has a low gaging threshold. I find it only partially enjoyable which is offset by the frustration.
. Licking and sucking on just the glans along with stroking and ball play is better than deep throating anyway. Proper cock sucking should be taught in high school. :roll:



It would be the only class with a waiting list. I would gladly go back to school for that class and act as a guinea pig. :D

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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Dave52 » Mon Dec 31, 2018 8:33 am

oldbeek wrote:
dtwarren1942 wrote:My wife occasionally will lick and put her mouth around my glans but will not go down any further because she has a low gaging threshold. I find it only partially enjoyable which is offset by the frustration.
. Licking and sucking on just the glans along with stroking and ball play is better than deep throating anyway. Proper cock sucking should be taught in high school. :roll:

It is in most schools you just need to find the students that graduate summa come loud ah
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Larry10625 » Mon Dec 31, 2018 9:19 am

Dave52 wrote:
oldbeek wrote:
dtwarren1942 wrote:My wife occasionally will lick and put her mouth around my glans but will not go down any further because she has a low gaging threshold. I find it only partially enjoyable which is offset by the frustration.
. Licking and sucking on just the glans along with stroking and ball play is better than deep throating anyway. Proper cock sucking should be taught in high school. :roll:

It is in most schools you just need to find the students that graduate summa come loud ah
Dave



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Re: Blow Job question

Postby flyingduck2019 » Sat Aug 17, 2019 3:23 pm

I feel the reason a blow job is so good is, at least for getting it from a female, she can do things with her mouth and tongue she can't do with her pussy. As for from another guy, it's all good.
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