Postby Txagq8 » Wed Sep 29, 2021 9:38 pm
Ready for an old guy to rain on your parade? Lol, not really, but I have an alternate view of reality.
You’re past 35. Nothing wrong with that. That’s still young. Still, you’re looking for a different sort of woman than you might have at 17 or 23.
Sex is fun, good, and that’s what you got the implant for. I would try to find women for a relationship first and then let sex follow, rather than jump into bed indiscriminately and hope a relationship eventually materializes.
You know yourself better than anyone else. Figure out what you’re really looking for in a woman, then put yourself in situations where you meet the kind of woman you are after. In my case, the type of woman I wanted to spend my life with were not to be found in dance halls, beer joints, honky tonks, or cocktail lounges. If you’re looking for compatible, consider volunteer work, church activities, political campaigns, local community type stuff. Use your network of friends. No doubt your buddies have wives who would live to play matchmaker. Arranged introductions via mutual friends is terribly underrated.
I know a lot more guys who have good sex due to a good marriage than I do guys who have a good marriage due to good sex. The old “it’s great that she swallows but can she cook?” syndrome.
You have the tools now to sexually satisfy any woman you want. It is important, though, for long term success that you want each other. I have found that, if all else fails, that it is best just to be who you really are and let the chips fall where they may. Long lasting relationships stem from situations where both parties really know each other, not when they fall in love with a facade.
Let things develop. You don’t have to apply a lot of pressure. Overanxious people can be scary. Love yourself without narcissism, treat others with friendship and kindness, and for God’s sake ask questions. People love to talk about themselves.
It all starts with deciding what you really want, though. Until then you’re spinning your wheels.
Robust, adolescent 65 year old. Venous leakage forever. Used shots, shots+pills 30+ years. Married to same wife ~35 yrs. Implanted 31Dec2019 in Austin Tx. AMS 700 LGX 18 cm with 5 cm RTE.