AST2123 wrote:Being about a week away from being cleared for sex, I am both excited and sceptic about this moment.
Previously, I saw some post here of members who had excellent experiences, and other who didn't. I do not want for my wife and I to be upset. This will be a drawback for me.
1. I am wondering if the negative experience is related to pain or being sore. If so, would wearing a condom or using lube, reduce the friction?
2. For those who encountered such an issue, how soon could they try again?
I would love to hear from both
![Very Happy :D](./images/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif)
&
![Crying or Very Sad :cry:](./images/smilies/icon_cry.gif)
.
Thank you
AST2123,
Lost Sheep is 100%, as it pertains to lube.
When I started. I wasn't real sure how much to pump the implant up to. As we progressed and she started to produce more moisture, sex became so much more "fun" again. Now,1.5 years after surgery, she insists that I pump as much as possible, the harder the better!
Ejaculating the first few times was a whole new feeling. We quickly learned that after I went, we could continue and she now has more orgasms that when we were newly weds.
Enjoy the ride, communicate, and be patient...with your partner AND yourself.
stmfttr
77 yo. Married 54years - Coloplast Titan, 22cm and no RTE's - Installed June 2019 Nebraska Medicine Dr. Deibert (urologist/surgeon)
ED started in 1994 Tried VED, Viagra and Cialis, and injections.