Dont want to pump in front of her

[needhelp]

I have a question that's been bothering me for over a yr since my implant. This question is really geared for the guy who is in the dating market. Some one who dose not have a wife or in a long term relationship. This makes things a little different for some of us. I did not have ED for any time, mine came from an accident. Im trying to keep things as natural as possible. What I miss is when your on a first date and things get out of control. One thing leads to another and you start tearing your cloths off each other. What do you do?? Stop and run in the bathroom and kill the mood? There's a time and place for everything and I don't think laying it on her that you have to pump up to get it hard is the place. Dose anybody have any ideas on how to keep it as natural as possible and not bring attention to her. I heard some guys say their GF does not know he has a implant ...... how? Any thoughts or ideas??

[ippg12]

Even before sex starts you have to pump in bath room and hide it
That way may look like you are naturally erected

[Gt1956]

I would suggest distraction or camofloge. If the date is going decently. You have to know that things might progress towards sex. As it was said prior to this post. Give yourself a head start with a few pumps. If you end up in a bed, reach under the covers & add a few more. She can't be staring at your hands all night. Scoot around in the bed & add some more. Perhaps take a moment to put your clothes in a neat pile with your back to her. Pump some then.
I would offer that people's habits are so varied. That you could pretent to scratch your nuts & get away with it.
So I guess your question begs a question in return. How have you been doing it & have you been discovered? Was it really that bad to be seen fondling your nuts. Heck, they do it in porn all the time.
True, this was with my wife. But there was many a time that I had to pull a pubic hair out that was tangled in my foreskin. I can easily imagine the need to do that on a date. Just for the record. My wife has had to adjust a hair that I had pushed into her vagina. Just pick something that is normal. Pretend to do it & pump instead.

[Captain1117]

I have been thinking of the same issue..though I dont have an implant yet.

Do you guys use/need both hands to pump?

How long does it takes to get full pump?

[Charlie2019]

I have been thinking of the same issue..though I dont have an implant yet.

Do you guys use/need both hands to pump?

How long does it takes to get full pump?

I have seen one or two guys that talk about pumping with one hand but the little bugger squirms around in the nut sac so most guys hold it with one hand and pump with the other. I get rock hard in up to 30 wall to wall pumps (full squeezes). Then I can hammer railroad spikes. Hope this helps.

[notaes]

How to handle pumping with implant

I always know when we are going to have sex! Of course my wife knows I have a bionic cock which she loves. We have usually 3-4 days per week that we fuck. I always have my cock pumped up and ready ahead of time. My wife actually gets a thrill out of watching me ready my cock for her pussy. It’s all in the presentation. We usually have some foreplay And then move right on iNto penetration of whIch I love. We both enjoy that feeling of sliding it gently into her womanhood. Then the fire is lit! I don’t make a big deal out of it but sometimes it takes 15 pumps other times It takes 40 pumps. I just go with the flow!

[Gt1956]

Try to keep it all in perspective guys. An implant isn't a perfect replacement for a natural working dick. But what are the dating problems with out it?
Being in a position where you are with a woman that wants to have sex but you can't because of ED?
Same situation but you are trying to use pills or shots?
At least with an implant you can be ready sooner & more reliably than the other options. Also, I suspect that your actions won't be the oddest things that a woman that has been in the dating scene for very long has encountered.

[jimmyd24]

I am looking into getting an implant.
I am married, but if i was dating, I think i would be honest with her and tell her once i pump up I can go as long as you need.
Maybe show her how it's don't for some foreplay.

[oldbeek]

I am rock hard at 30 pumps. I can go all day with 10 pumps in me. That gives me a natural look and feel as if dating a sexy woman. It is plump to semi hard. Start your date with that type of a hard on. If she gets aggressive and reaches down to touch you she will know you are ready. Once she is ripping her cloths off she will not give a damn if you need to pump a few more. It is no more distracting than putting on a condom or adding lube. Takes 2 hands and about 10 seconds. In missionary position you could be rubbing her clit for foreplay and at the same time holding your junk in the position to pump at the same time. You are over worrying about it.

[Captain1117]

I am rock hard at 30 pumps. I can go all day with 10 pumps in me. That gives me a natural look and feel as if dating a sexy woman. It is plump to semi hard. Start your date with that type of a hard on. If she gets aggressive and reaches down to touch you she will know you are ready. Once she is ripping her cloths off she will not give a damn if you need to pump a few more. It is no more distracting than putting on a condom or adding lube. Takes 2 hands and about 10 seconds. In missionary position you could be rubbing her clit for foreplay and at the same time holding your junk in the position to pump at the same time. You are over worrying about it.

Sounds like a good strategy:
1.Pre pump before entering bedroom
2.While she is lying on bed, the man can be using his tongue on her clit/labia after some finger play. This usually ensures she has her eyes closed..if you do it correctly.
3.The second advantage is placing her on the edge of the bed and you sitting on the floor ensures..your legs and penis and waist is close to the floor and she cant see anything happening on your scrotum.
4.Since the tongue is all is needed now..you can pump easily and in 30 seconds max(while she enjoys the tongue game).
5.Once pumped to your satisfaction..you can stand and proceed to put on a condom and/or proceed to penetrate.
Trust this helps.