Single with an Implant

[Magicmike]

Anyone on this site that can give me any advice on dating with an implant. I'm a single man 56 years old with Peyronies. I have tried every treatment out there and I still have no results. I really think it will come down to getting an implant put in. Can anyone give me a heads up on dating with an implant. My concerns would be when it's time for action what is the best approach when it's time for action. Any suggestions would be much appreciated

[Lost Sheep]

Two ways to go (which have been addressed numerous time in prior threads - have you tried the "search function?)

Keep your E.D. a secret

Be up front about your E.D.

You stated that you do not have an implant yet. I had good results on a dating site with an ad asking for a "lab partner" to help me experiment with sex before treating for E.D. (with the final solution likely to be an implant) and after treatment. Several women volunteered to help in this way, a few merely gave good wishes and a couple advised against asking for this sort of relationship (sex for experimentation and treatment, but without commitment). Much encouragment and congratulations for my courage in being up front about impotence.

Women are incredibly supportive if they feel safe, trusted, valued and respected.

Do a search for women's reactions. You will find several threads.

[Lost Sheep]

Here is a list I compiled a while ago. Most will be worth you reading...the entire threads.

What will she think? - a womans perspective
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=6513

Any offers for sex from intrigued girls?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=7166

How will young women respond to implants?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 9&start=30

Getting discovered: How to tell a woman
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9236

Pumping in front of her a mood killer?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 6&start=10

Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9501

What excuse did you use? (More about explaining the surgery than to your partner)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9787

She can't feel anything (a little bit off the subject)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9594

Afraid of sex
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 3&start=10

Is this a common story?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10089

Does it feel different to her?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10103[/quote]

[Magicmike]

Thanks