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LMCatman wrote:Pumping can be done discretely, a few pumps, some oral, a few more pumps, some playing around, a few more pumps...... Or..... Pump, pump, pump right in front of her (or in the bathroom) .

THIS - even with my partner who knows I have it, I prefer to just discreetly pump a bit, then some more during foreplay.. after the pump starts to wear in, it's actually quite easy to be discreet. And at the end of it - you have a more than perfect hard dick to do what every you want with them.

For me - its so much better than saying ... oh I popped a pill, lets start in 60mins ?

Some women have expressed feelings of inadequacy because they cannot grow her man's erection by her own desirability and ministrations. So, it does help to provide the illusion that your penis (as well as the rest of your body language and signals of ardor) are responding to her.

Even if she knows intellectually that there is a hydraukic device, the illusion helps her mind cause her body and emotions to respond.

The "Suspension of Disbelief" that makes theater so powerful applies here, too.

A woman who cries at the ending of Romeo and Juliet will swell with expectation as your penis grows, if the illusion is compelling. Make your foreplay an act of theater.

Greg1956 wrote:It doesn’t have to be a mood killer. Prior to my ED problems my wife and I always enjoyed....

Damn, Greg, you sure know how to write an erotic scene for us!

If you use lube you pump it up at the same time. No big deal.

If they express an interest than you can put on an exhibition.

David_R wrote:

Greg1956 wrote:It doesn’t have to be a mood killer. Prior to my ED problems my wife and I always enjoyed....

Damn, Greg, you sure know how to write an erotic scene for us!

Maybe writing erotic stories should be my new career!

No, not in my experience with women over 50.
Perhaps younger, less experienced women may find it confronting....but not the ones who figure out how to use it for their pleasure

A real woman appreciates a good hard dick. She doesn't care how it got that way. Once a woman's had a bionic dick in her, she's yours!
Donnie

ddbryan1972 wrote:A real woman appreciates a good hard dick. She doesn't care how it got that way. Once a woman's had a bionic dick in her, she's yours!
Donnie

NEVER forget that a woman (generally) makes love with the MAN, not his penis, bionic or not. If you want to keep a woman, remember the things peripheral to sex are necessary to keep most women for the long term.

To me the mood killer would be having to say "Go, go, gadget penis!" in the Inspector Gadget voice every time you want to have sex.

And yes, once I get my implant someday, I will tell my friends about it both to pave the way for any of them who might need one in the future and also to tell that silly joke.