Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

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razor1
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Re: Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

Postby razor1 » Wed Mar 28, 2018 1:55 pm

LMCatman wrote:Pumping can be done discretely, a few pumps, some oral, a few more pumps, some playing around, a few more pumps...... Or..... Pump, pump, pump right in front of her (or in the bathroom) .

THIS - even with my partner who knows I have it, I prefer to just discreetly pump a bit, then some more during foreplay.. after the pump starts to wear in, it's actually quite easy to be discreet. And at the end of it - you have a more than perfect hard dick to do what every you want with them.

For me - its so much better than saying ... oh I popped a pill, lets start in 60mins ?
45yr old, ED for 20ys in one form or another
Implanted by Dr Eid on 22.02.18 - titan 22cm (left no RTE, right 1cm RTE)
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Re: Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Mar 28, 2018 5:30 pm

Some women have expressed feelings of inadequacy because they cannot grow her man's erection by her own desirability and ministrations. So, it does help to provide the illusion that your penis (as well as the rest of your body language and signals of ardor) are responding to her.

Even if she knows intellectually that there is a hydraukic device, the illusion helps her mind cause her body and emotions to respond.

The "Suspension of Disbelief" that makes theater so powerful applies here, too.

A woman who cries at the ending of Romeo and Juliet will swell with expectation as your penis grows, if the illusion is compelling. Make your foreplay an act of theater.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017 Dr Shaw.
READ OLD THREADS to ask better questions and better understand answers.
Make yourself part of your medical team.
Document your current penile size: photos and written records.
Pre-op V.E.D. therapy helps.

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Re: Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

Postby David_R » Wed Mar 28, 2018 7:57 pm

Greg1956 wrote:It doesn’t have to be a mood killer. Prior to my ED problems my wife and I always enjoyed....

Damn, Greg, you sure know how to write an erotic scene for us! :D

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Re: Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

Postby charlesr » Wed Mar 28, 2018 8:01 pm

If you use lube you pump it up at the same time. No big deal.

If they express an interest than you can put on an exhibition.
Born 1951. Radical Robotic Prostatectomy on October 6, 2013. Bionic with Titan Touch with Bioflex Zero Degree 18cm w/ (1) rte Implant, Infrapubic, on July 13, 2015.

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Re: Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

Postby Greg1956 » Wed Mar 28, 2018 8:36 pm

David_R wrote:
Greg1956 wrote:It doesn’t have to be a mood killer. Prior to my ED problems my wife and I always enjoyed....

Damn, Greg, you sure know how to write an erotic scene for us! :D


Maybe writing erotic stories should be my new career!
I am 64 and had ED from a VL. Implanted by Dr. Ronald Anglade in Atlanta on 9/18/17. I have an AMS700LGX 21 cm via a Penoscrotal incision. Very happy with results. 5 3/4” soft and 6 3/4” x 5 5/8” hard.

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Re: Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

Postby Smetro » Thu Mar 29, 2018 3:02 am

No, not in my experience with women over 50.
Perhaps younger, less experienced women may find it confronting....but not the ones who figure out how to use it for their pleasure :)
65, Titan Touch 22cm+1.5cm rte's op done in Melbourne, Aus. by Dr Chris Love-Feb 2017 Venous leakage over a 2 year period, did pills and Caverject. Length@ 3 1/2years is: 7.5” erect, 6.5” flaccid and almost 6” girth. Normal orgasm ret 3 years post-op.

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Re: Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

Postby Donnie1954 » Thu Mar 29, 2018 8:40 am

A real woman appreciates a good hard dick. She doesn't care how it got that way. Once a woman's had a bionic dick in her, she's yours!
Donnie
Implant AMS 700 CX, MS (18cm x 12mm with 5.5cm RTEs) on 10\4\16. 64 Dr. Edward Kata of Orlando. Awesome surgeon. Check out, 'DD Bryan. My implant journey, Wit and Wisdom, Stretching routine, Implant Pics, Natural Hang. Live in Ga.
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Re: Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

Postby Lost Sheep » Thu Mar 29, 2018 1:21 pm

ddbryan1972 wrote:A real woman appreciates a good hard dick. She doesn't care how it got that way. Once a woman's had a bionic dick in her, she's yours!
Donnie

NEVER forget that a woman (generally) makes love with the MAN, not his penis, bionic or not. If you want to keep a woman, remember the things peripheral to sex are necessary to keep most women for the long term.
Last edited by Lost Sheep on Fri Mar 30, 2018 12:54 am, edited 1 time in total.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017 Dr Shaw.
READ OLD THREADS to ask better questions and better understand answers.
Make yourself part of your medical team.
Document your current penile size: photos and written records.
Pre-op V.E.D. therapy helps.

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Re: Can pumping in front of her be a mood killer?

Postby Nocturne » Thu Mar 29, 2018 11:57 pm

To me the mood killer would be having to say "Go, go, gadget penis!" in the Inspector Gadget voice every time you want to have sex.

And yes, once I get my implant someday, I will tell my friends about it both to pave the way for any of them who might need one in the future and also to tell that silly joke.
Genetically sky-high Lp(a) of 390 led to various heart diseases. Ultra-low testosterone of 120 (now 480 with Clomid) also contributed to ED at age 41. Managing with daily Cialis, but for me, the implant is a "when", not an "if".


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