aninthin wrote:How does it feel like when we get lap dance at strip club?
I infer from your question that you are speculating on the same issue I did, that is, "Knowing that natural ereciions are almost certainly completely absent after the implant operation, will I still feel arousal in response to sexual stimulation, the same as I did before implant. "
I started this thread posing the question:
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=6663&p=43149Lost Sheep wrote:The other day, I kissed my new girlfriend in her kitchen and I got a degree of arousal - some heat and a tightening in my loins (if not an incipient erection in my actual penis). It felt rather good even if I couldn't tell what it actually was.
Once I have (if I get one) an implant, does that subtle response/feedback go away?
Lost Sheep
The answers there might be informative for you to read.
Unstated in the question was the fact that my erections at that time were weak and short-lived as well as rare.
When I was fully functioning (in erectile sense) I could gauge the degree of physical attraction to a woman by the tightening in my loins and ultimately the rigidity of my erections in her presence (physically or in my thoughts).
I have had an implant for a few months; that loin tightening is virtually absent. But the mental stimulation is still there. as well as the more subtle signals my body gives me. As with blind people relying on their other senses and sharpening them, I expect my ability to detect my state of arousal will be more apparent and easier for me to discern as my attention to non-penile signals from my body and psyche will be easer for me to discern.
So, yes, I believe you will feel your arousal, but no, it may not be the same as before.
I feel (again, at only a few months post-implant) less spontaneous arousal in my loins after my implant.
But I have personally observed that I can enjoy HER arousal a LOT better than before. I no longer have concern about whether my penis will cooperate.
We had sex last night and (because she has some problems reaching orgasm at present) we had to try a few different positions. I certainly would have had my erection collapse halfway through the first position attempt, as my ED and PE always combined to thwart realistic attempts at coital orgasm. That would have been the end of the night if not for the implant. We were able to continue and ultimately she had a most enjoyable climax to the evening.
So, to repeat and summarize.
Your feelings of arousal during a lap dance (or intimacy with your girlfriend/wife) will probably not be the same, but it will be more subtle, which you will get used to feeling.
Your enjoyment of your partner's arousal and orgasms will be a worthwhile benefit for any loss of your own feelings.
Your ability to succeed in completing coitus as you have imagined it SHOULD be will overshadow any regret you feel over any loss of lap dance gratification.
Put more succinctly: If the imp0lant were not worth every sacrifice. you would be better off just jerking off. If satisfying your partner is more important to you than your own gratification... you know what to do.
Good luck.