GayPornStud wrote:(edited for focus)
I had incentive anal sex for the first time last night with my partner. He is not accustomed to being on the bottom, so this may be an aberration, but I had a challenging time getting in there, even fully inflated.
I expect you already know this, but if you don't and certainly for the benefit of others reading here, I will state the (probably) obvious:
Lubrication is key.
I tried prostate massage with a sexual device with my girlfriend (mixed results so far, so not much to report, but many thanks to Stephen54, who has been very generous with much-appreciated advice) recently. The first time, it was challenging. The second time, we used, not more, but better placed, lubrication.
We used one of those syringes sold at pharmacies for dispensing liquid medicines into the mouths of infants or animals. Essentially a syringe without the needle. I placed a 4-inch 1/8" tube on the end of the syringe and inserted that fully into my anus, so the lubrication was distributed throughout the distal part of my colon. It made insertion and manipulation of the tool a LOT less uncomfortable than it was the first time we tried. Less mess, too.
