Rough sex with implant

[PFracture]

PFracture, I am so sorry for all the shit you have been through (and continue to go through, it seems). So very, very sorry.

Thanks. The only thing to do now, is to try to move forward.... We are all on the same boat, I guess...

[gollam121]

I think there are two limiting factors: The level (or lack of) hinge and the woman's discomfort.
If the implant has too much hinge, the angle is low and it is not even a proper erection. But if the angle is too high with no hinge (flex at the base) at all, then very rough sex will be uncomfortable for the man and potentially damaging something. Whether that is the implant or the penis I don't know. But if I pump my implant too hard, to where it points at 1:30 - 2:00 and has basically no flex at all (meaning I cannot even get it down below 2:00), then it simply doesn't feel right. If I would go fast and hard in a demanding position with that inflation level, it feels like something would have to give.
The second factor, the woman's discomfort, basically comes from the same reason - too much inflation and hence no flex at all in the base or the shaft. This will mean that the penis cannot align and follow the woman's anatomy, but rather just pokes her inside her at whatever angle the penis penetrates her. And that hurts.

But since this extreme inflation level has no benefits for neither me nor the woman, I do 't ever go there and then rough sex is no problem. With a reasonable inflation level, which is as hard or just slightly harder than a perfect natural erection, rough sex feels perfectly fine for both parts.

Of course, based on many posts here on FT, many implanted men don't have this issue since their angle is 3-4 with a hinge allowing them to bend the penis from their belly to their ass.
And then I don't think there are any limits in terms of rough sex.

Maybe i shouldn't have, but i laughed so hard at this...

Yes maybe you shouldn't PenisFracture man. STOP being a complete knob and having a go at men that come here for help.

I've had ED since teenage years and proberely haven't had the sex you had before your fracture. I really feel for you but I'm tied of you being harsh on guys who come on FT for help and support. If you can't be nice and understanding then piss off and deal with your own issues alone! Be harsh and pity yourself or do something about it, either way stop the poor me, pour me another drink bull shit PFracture.

[lunacynic]

if I pump my implant too hard ... the penis cannot align and follow the woman's anatomy, but rather just pokes her inside her at whatever angle the penis penetrates her. And that hurts ... With a reasonable inflation level, which is as hard or just slightly harder than a perfect natural erection, rough sex feels perfectly fine for both parts.

i posted this comment to a different thread but it probably belongs here.

keep in mind there's more than one setting. it's adjustable and you're in control. in the days when my little head was running the show, sometimes i just couldn't get him on the same page. but, as a partner recently observed as i introduced her to some operational details, "so now you're the boss." beautiful!

but she may be reluctant to complain so if there's any doubt, ask. sometimes i hear, "it's too hard." sometimes i hear, "can you make it harder?"

yes. yes i can

[PFracture]

I think there are two limiting factors: The level (or lack of) hinge and the woman's discomfort.
If the implant has too much hinge, the angle is low and it is not even a proper erection. But if the angle is too high with no hinge (flex at the base) at all, then very rough sex will be uncomfortable for the man and potentially damaging something. Whether that is the implant or the penis I don't know. But if I pump my implant too hard, to where it points at 1:30 - 2:00 and has basically no flex at all (meaning I cannot even get it down below 2:00), then it simply doesn't feel right. If I would go fast and hard in a demanding position with that inflation level, it feels like something would have to give.
The second factor, the woman's discomfort, basically comes from the same reason - too much inflation and hence no flex at all in the base or the shaft. This will mean that the penis cannot align and follow the woman's anatomy, but rather just pokes her inside her at whatever angle the penis penetrates her. And that hurts.

But since this extreme inflation level has no benefits for neither me nor the woman, I do 't ever go there and then rough sex is no problem. With a reasonable inflation level, which is as hard or just slightly harder than a perfect natural erection, rough sex feels perfectly fine for both parts.

Of course, based on many posts here on FT, many implanted men don't have this issue since their angle is 3-4 with a hinge allowing them to bend the penis from their belly to their ass.
And then I don't think there are any limits in terms of rough sex.

Maybe i shouldn't have, but i laughed so hard at this...

Yes maybe you shouldn't PenisFracture man. STOP being a complete knob and having a go at men that come here for help.

I've had ED since teenage years and proberely haven't had the sex you had before your fracture. I really feel for you but I'm tied of you being harsh on guys who come on FT for help and support. If you can't be nice and understanding then piss off and deal with your own issues alone! Be harsh and pity yourself or do something about it, either way stop the poor me, pour me another drink bull shit PFracture.

Hi gollam! I appreciate your input, but i think that if you are to voice your opinion in this thread only to (try?) badmouth in that way, at least run a search to my posts.. so you don't make a fool out of yourself you know? Nothing but a pile of lies, and you were obviously triggered. Here's the truth:

-i have been here reading this board way before i registered.... close to a year. Learning and learning more... searching the board, back and forth on the most sensible options there were to solve "my ED problem". After i registered, i made a short introduction, which you can read on this thread: viewtopic.php?f=14&t=6261&p=38975#p38975 . I then proceed to post in the board on threads as they were created both giving my opinion and encouraging and cheering with others on their successes, trying to be the most honest and sincere as possible whenever i thought credit was due. Simply searching my posts will confirm this, on the many pages it spans through. And on those many pages, i didn't even count, but i bet you see less than 10 times, not to say 5, me talking about "my story" and publicly crying and bitching about "how i used to fuck so many girls before" and "how my sex life was amazing".

I also came to some conclusions and have several ideas that, in my point of view, would be extremely beneficial for this board and approached the admin to try to make it a reality; to no avail. Check it here: viewtopic.php?f=7&t=6275&p=39199#p39199 and here viewtopic.php?f=7&t=7337

I also made a big effort to partake in technical discussions, that where started by Merrix, Alibaba, Lost Sheep, that are of extreme importance to a lot of current and future implantees, in my point of view, and again... the community doesn't seem to care much.. Check here: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=1709&start=10 AND here: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=6266&p=39236#p39236 AND here: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7246 AND here: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7248&start=10
and here: viewtopic.php?f=4&t=7022

Kinda seems, JUST, a bit different from that crap you are saying there. Kinda... As for the the few bashing post i did recently... how could one not? i mean... i was too polite in fact!

And what about you, what do we have here? Somebody that obviously didn't do his homework when it comes to choosing the proper technique/surgery and chose to believe in something that is nothing but a pipe dream in terms of "success rate" and appears to work only for the "select few" and brings at best marginal improvements in the long term, and then you come here to the forum creating threads "trying to stop others" from having a surgery that you had and did not work for you, but apparently works for others.

If you had been true to yourself, you would have realized that after so many years of having ED, your best chance of getting cured would be with an implant and your research would have been focused on choosing the best surgeon and country/place to go. But it's better to believe in miracles and obscure treatments, right Gollam?

And then you get pissed because i laughed at something that Merrix says, that unfortunately is very true?

Of course, based on many posts here on FT, many implanted men don't have this issue since their angle is 3-4 with a hinge allowing them to bend the penis from their belly to their ass.
And then I don't think there are any limits in terms of rough sex.

He was sarcastic and he himself criticized this, on several posts on his implant thread about this very issue on this board, with folks claiming to have "great results" when in fact the thing above is true.

So yeah... i guess folks can draw there conclusions on who's right and who should moderate their posts a bit more. Have a great day Gollam.

[Donnie1954]

Men, They're so sensitive! Lighten up.

[gollam121]

Look PFracture, I don't where you reside ? I did get pissed when you where very dismissive of that guy who posted for advise because he'd injured himself doing penis workouts.

Whatever has caused our ED, whatever the age of the man or whatever the treatments choice we just share, chat pass on good or bad experiences and be supportive to each where we can right?

You can slam me for doing Scerothreapy and that's alright because I beat myself up regularly.

I only know bits of your story but it appears your fracture has left you with a venous leak? If pills and injections don't help then I'm sorry to say from my horrible experience that the only thing that will cure your situation is an implant, you might want this and your urologist won't put you forward or you can't get insurance? I don't know ??

I've done ligation and Scerothreapy and neither was a success apart from I was pre Scerothreapy able to have sex most times even if it lasted a few minutes.

I'm fortunate I live in a country where our health service is free at point of service, albeit we do pay for it in taxes. I having the implant to save my sanity because I've done with bullshit treatment either current or due in 10 years.

I can only say take what action you need but don't let this destroy you, I know this is easier said then done but a least do everything you can to get fixed.

Good luck
Gollam121

[Evinrude]

And for you size guys...my dick is VERY VERY small!

Compared to a typical Pornhub "film star", yeah, but 4.75" is only 1/2" shorter than average. Speaking of which, some of the porno dicks boggle my mind...how do they keep them under wraps in normal life ? LOL..

[David_R]

some of the porno dicks boggle my mind

We must always remember that in general, in porn they only want women with big tits and men with big dicks. (Neither group is "normal" or "average" in any way.) Of course, mine is huge!

[Evinrude]

some of the porno dicks boggle my mind

We must always remember that in general, in porn they only want women with big tits and men with big dicks. (Neither group is "normal" or "average" in any way.) Of course, mine is huge!

Well that brings up another curiosity...I would think that 95 percent of "male screwing female" porn viewers are male. So why the big dicks ? Do most viewers want to see unually big dicks ? I know I sure don't...rather see average guys ..or none...lesbian or female solo masturbate vids turn me on more. How about you guys ?

[Lost Sheep]

(edited for focus)
...lesbian or female solo masturbate vids turn me on more. How about you guys ?

I recall seeing on a cable channel some videos which were the result of a study of college students. This study enlisted young women to masturbate to orgasm in front of a camera. The camera showed only their upper bodies (faces down to shoulders - almost to upper arms).

One could see from the shaking, they were actively masturbating. It was interesting to observe the expressions of their faces changing as the approached climax, reached climax and came down in the few minutes after.

Not overtly pornographic, but interesting nonetheless. I wish I had the video to study closer, or to read the results of the study.

One subject, after orgasm, took a tissue and gingerly dabbed the sweat off her upper lip and her underarms. The similarities and differences between how men and women experience masturbatory orgasms is telling. I am not sure, telling what, but interesting nonetheless.