Well, I am now three weeks post-surgery and things are healing nicely. I've been pulling down the pump into my scrotum as suggested and actually using Dr. Perito's method for this. I'm scheduled for my urologist to activate the pump and start cycling on Christmas Eve, but he also said that if I had no pain, soreness, swelling and/or discomfort, I could come in and see him as early as next week.
Today it has felt different. As I've previously written, I am not partially inflated. Today, it feels as if the cylinders have been saying to me: "Let's Go, Pal! It's time to pump...you up!"
There is almost like a pressure in my penis that feels like it wants to grow and/or get hard. Anyone else feel that during your healing process?Okay, now a big question. My wife has been totally supportive and has started talking to me in a sexual way again. She's beautiful and sexy and we were pretty sexually active up until the last couple of years when I was battling cancer...twice. So, we just kinda turned off the "sex machine" for almost two years. Not even foreplay or anything because it was just too frustrating with my hard/flaccid state from chemo, diabetes, etc.
So, now we are a couple of weeks away from activation and maybe three weeks away till I'll be ready for a test drive. I'm going to plan a trip somewhere warm so we can lighten the pressure of re-entry
. My question (well looking for advice, actually) is how did those of you who are married handle this? How did you get back into a sexual life with your wife? I could use some direction/suggestions here.
And, as always, thank you for your positivity and insight.
