Prostate Massage

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vincentarpino
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Prostate Massage

Postby vincentarpino » Wed Oct 08, 2025 12:12 am

A funny thing happened on my way to becoming bionic next month.

Yesteday, I decided to go for a full Manzilian at a local spa where I live. It was done by a very cool (and I have to say very hot) young lady. I was really apprehensive for a ton of reasons...one, I'm a grower and it ain't growing lately on its own. Also, while hot wax on your genitals sounds great for a minute, the removal of said wax...well, that's a whole other program. She was amazing. For me, I was a bit self-conscious about my new little friend that just won't get hard or grow on its own. It's why I'm looking forward to my surgery next month.

Last year, I discovered prostate massage and prostate milking. I was actually interested in it because it seemed like a last resort to get hard. My wife, to my surprise, was very much into it, but, when my cancer came back we had to stop. I'm cancer-free again (see my "Finally!" post if you wish) and have been prepping for my surgery.

So, when the esthetician turned me over, she was surprised to see how easily I assumed the position of ass up, legs spread and elbows resting on the table. The second she spread the hot wax on my ass, I could feel myself getting hard. But, as many of you probably know, that was my dick lying to me...or my brain...it was that "hard-flaccid"thing again But, I felt incredibly aroused. As she got closer to my anus and perineum, she was comfortable enough to ask me about prostate massage and we got into a whole convo about it for the time she was literally up my ass. :)

If you've tried prostate massage (no milking unfortunately in this one), you know what I'm talking about. And if you haven't tried it, you are missing out, gentlemen! Well, anyway, when the prostate is stimulated, it releases its own fluid through your penis. It's not sperm...it's prostate fluid. And, it is said to be incredibly healthy to release this fluid! It's also mind-blowing. So, when we were done, I didn't really feel pain from the was, but when I turned over on my back, she said, oh...it looks like I left some wax on your penis. I looked down and I said: "That is NOT wax! Sorry!" We both got a great laugh out of it.

She asked when I might be coming back and I told her about my implant surgery and she was really interested. Which was nice for me. I told her that I didn't know exactly when I would be cleared to get another wax job, but that she should be prepared that I would probably be somewhere between 40 and 60% erect through the entire thing. Through our conversation, I think she may be Queer, so I don't think that turned her own, but truly piqued her interest. She said she looked forward to it. I told her she would have to be very careful on my balls because of the pump. She asked: "PUMP?" I told her that if she were okay with it, I would show her where it is located and she could pump it if she wanted the experience. I don't know...I was also trying not to sound like a total creep. :D

We'll see. Anyone else have experiences with prostate massage/milking and/or waxing?

Comatose
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Re: Prostate Massage

Postby Comatose » Sun Oct 12, 2025 11:06 am

vincentarpino wrote: Anyone else have experiences with prostate massage/milking and/or waxing?

After I had a life threatening event and ending up in the hospital with wires, tubes and appliances hooked up, I had visions of aliens attacking my body. One of those aliens was burning my penis, so I groped around to all the wires, tubes and instruments until I found the culprit and pulled it out . . . thereby shredding my urethra from stem to stern.

At 20 years old I found that my favorite toy was now semi useless, however after several years of urethral dilation needed to stretch the long segment stricture (14cm) so I could piss. I discovered that when I masturbated with the with a SS dilator inserted into my bladder, I could also stimulate my prostate and produce some mind blowing, full body orgasms. It was heaven on earth until I couldn't insert the urethral sound all the way into my bladder. So the next solution was surgery to repair my urethral i.e. Urethroplasty. It worked great and I could pee again, however after two months, my stream slowed and further investigation revealed the first surgery missed 1cm of the stricture. So back into the operating room for a second go at a Urethroplasty. After the second operation, my Urologist told me to stop masturbating that way because it was causing more damage to my already fucked up urethra. However, the damage had already been done, after two penis surgeries, I now had ED which is why I'm here reading about ED from all the members of the bionic brotherhood.

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Kodixx
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Re: Prostate Massage

Postby Kodixx » Sun Oct 12, 2025 3:04 pm

Comatose, wow I'm so sorry to read what you've been thru and the situation you're in -- especially at such a young age. You're in the right place to gather information and hear about a wide variety of experiences from guys of all ages. There are lots of threads comparing types of implants, different manufacturers, different models, different types of procedures -- all of it. The good news is implants have a very high satisfaction rating. That's not to say everything is easy and great, but, net-net the return of sexual function is amazing. And, your new sexual function will come with some capabilities that go way beyond your original equipment :)

Best wishes on your journey, there are lots of guys in the brotherhood who are anxious to help.

Have you talked with your urologist about an implant ? There are a lot of considerations that go into the decision about an implant. Below are a couple of lists of topics worth reviewing :

Questions? Begin here !
https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=26527

Comprehensive List of Questions for your Surgeon
https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=26352

- Chuck
Comatose wrote:the damage had already been done, after two penis surgeries, I now had ED which is why I'm here reading about ED from all the members of the bionic brotherhood.
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 6 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks


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