Stamina> Size stop obsession with size

[Handyman]

More important than size is stamina. Some of you stress that you lost an inch or worse a fraction of an inch. Who cares. If your massive dong lasts 30 seconds what good is that?

I had prostate surgery lost an inch. Implant surgery did NOT cause any additional loss. I was average to begin with, now I'm below average. So yeah I had to make adjustments in positions that work.

You know what matters? I have a great partner, a rock hard dick and I can last a really long time.

Get in shape or at a minimum do situps, cardio, leg lifts -- it all helps me give joy and feel pleasure.

Stop focusing on size -focus on making the most of what you got.

[UpNorth]

I’m hearing yah Handyman, my focus is on regaining as much as possible whilest enjoying boning my wife. Just an average guy here.

[LGXDownunder]

I'm with you Handyman. Also lost size after prostate surgery but eventually got it back with rigorous VED use.
Some initial loss again post implant, now mostly regained but still working on the last few millimetres.
Only average size to begin with, but historically very active and fit.
Unfortunately multiple surgeries put a dent in that, although I'm still fitter than most my age.
I was a distance runner for many years but can't run now with a knee replacement.
Very slowly clawing back some fitness through daily long brisk walks, plus hiking, cycling etc as often as I can.
Regular leg lifts with weights and similar is part of my ongoing knee rehab routine.
Recently I'm finding that boning my wife for extended periods is actually really good cardio in itself!
So happy that I can stay rock hard and thrust indefinitely .

[frank66665]

I'm with you Handyman. Also lost size after prostate surgery but eventually got it back with rigorous VED use.
Some initial loss again post implant, now mostly regained but still working on the last few millimetres.
Only average size to begin with, but historically very active and fit.
Unfortunately multiple surgeries put a dent in that, although I'm still fitter than most my age.
I was a distance runner for many years but can't run now with a knee replacement.
Very slowly clawing back some fitness through daily long brisk walks, plus hiking, cycling etc as often as I can.
Regular leg lifts with weights and similar is part of my ongoing knee rehab routine.
Recently I'm finding that boning my wife for extended periods is actually really good cardio in itself!
So happy that I can stay rock hard and thrust indefinitely .

I have often seen big dicks here, finally I see men with dicks like mine in the average happy, this reassures me, I wanted to ask LGXDownunder since he had the operation on the 6th and I on the 4th of March, we have the same implant and size, how much do you measure in length and circumference now

[beachbum1]

I hear that alot on here . Lost an inch. Lost a 1/2 inch. I've heard and chatted with guys that won't get an implant because they read or heard that they may lose some size. Yeah, no guy wants to lose ANY size. But damn, wouldn't you rather have a 5" (put your own number) working dick than a 6" limp noodle hanging between your legs. I lost a little size with the implant. Probably have gained it back by now. And yes I was ticked off because of it. But at the same time , I was, and am, ecstatic over having a dick that will stay HARD for hours and hours, rather than a few seconds or minutes.

[riseagain]

Amen to that.

[frank66665]

I hear that alot on here . Lost an inch. Lost a 1/2 inch. I've heard and chatted with guys that won't get an implant because they read or heard that they may lose some size. Yeah, no guy wants to lose ANY size. But damn, wouldn't you rather have a 5" (put your own number) working dick than a 6" limp noodle hanging between your legs. I lost a little size with the implant. Probably have gained it back by now. And yes I was ticked off because of it. But at the same time , I was, and am, ecstatic over having a dick that will stay HARD for hours and hours, rather than a few seconds or minutes.

You are absolutely right beachbum1, I understand them, the fact is that those who find themselves with an average or low average dick are afraid that the partner won't feel anything or that it won't be satisfying, you have a 21 + 2 = 23 cm implant and even losing 1 or 2 cm you would end up with 15/16 cm, someone with a 14 cm penis, losing 1 or 2 cm would end up with 12/13 cm, and you start to wonder if it's enough to give pleasure to your partner

[ElbowRoom]

Good point, Handy.

I have been blessed with penile size, and I have told my wife many times "I'd easily trade an inch of size to get hard whenever and as long as I wanted." I guess I'll put this to the test later in the year when I have my surgery.

Nobody wants to lose size, but it's also a fairly easy trade for me. I could see it being more difficult for a guy with 5 inches that is now 4. Going from a hair below average to well below could make me question the decision.

But in the end I think it would still be worth it to have the superpower of unlimited stamina.

[beachbum1]

hi read a couple of the replies. I completely understand the fears of losing anything. i understand the question of will my partner feel anything or will i be able to satisfy them. But you have to ask yourself, Am i doing it now with a broken dick? If you are , then maybe an implant isnt right for you at this time. But if your not, and in a lot of cases not even able to try, then what do you have to lose . Im not not trying to be a smart ass or any thing, its just makes since to me that if you cant get an erection, then you cant satisfy any one. i could be completely wrong but thats just the way i see it. one more thing, not all lose anything, yes right after surgery you are probably smaller, but with a little time and cycling you most likely gain it back

[JohnHC]

I lost some, not sure how much, but knew with cycling I would gain most of it back. I'm only average in size ( although the people working with Dr Hakky's after care said I have a bigger than average package, I'm sure they were just trying to make me feel better ) but I know that I can keep it hard however long I want and pretty much outlast anyone who isn't likewise equiped. Being able to keep my erection way longer than before, plus keeping it hard after cumming is great ( I used to go from hard to wet noodle shortly after orgasm ) so yeah I don't worry about my size.