Nocturne wrote:What were some unexpected benefits of getting an implant, besides the obvious? And what were some positions you had quietly given up on ever performing before, that you really enjoy doing now?
Nocturne,
Some of my unexpected benefits are similar to what others have posted but I'll list them anyway:
* Becoming a shower - wasn't sure I'd get that but really happy I did.
* Regaining both my sexual confidence and overall male confidence.
* No more cold shrinkage. I've tested this a few times in our now very cold swimming pool.
* Like doggedly said it's pleasant feeling semi engorged all the time and larger.
* More intense orgasms (when I get them - still early on and can be hit and miss).
* Glans and dick suddenly swell with arousal and become extremely hard, just before orgasm. Feels like a natural erection.
* Actually realizing just how hard I can get and stay that way, potentially indefinitely. I know that's the objective but actually doing it I found surprising.
* Sometimes I get some spontaneous engorgement and a partial erection if aroused; and sometimes for no apparent reason at all.
It's not a boner but it feels good, and very unexpected since I had absolutely zero erectile function for 3 years post prostatectomy.
Positions are a bit restrictive for us. I can still do pretty much anything but my wife is less agile these days.
We have tried all sorts of different things in the past but standing doggy works best for her now.
I used to really enjoy having her legs over my shoulders. I could still do that position but she would be too uncomfortable.