why no sex after implant?

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nats56
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why no sex after implant?

Postby nats56 » Sun Nov 26, 2023 11:21 am

Forgive me if this has been answered already. I've searched for posts on this but haven't really found an answer.

Why do some instructions from surgeons say no sex, including masturbation, for a specified time after getting an implant? I've noticed from other surgeons don't say anything about it. In my case the only specific no-nos were no vardenafil, don't lift anything heavier than a gallon of milk and to take it easy for the first couple of weeks. Nothing about pumping or having sex. My implant was performed on 11/9 and I'm supposed to go in for my first post-op follow up Tuesday 11/28 so I'll ask them. Anyway, I've been pumping since about a week after the implant. It was really sore at first but has improved dramatically in the last couple of days.

I don't want to screw anything up so I've held off on any type of sex except for pleasing my wife.

I'm assuming the no sex command is because of potential problems with pain or possible damage to sutures, incision, etc. Anyone have advice or an answer?
Had ED starting in my early 40s. Viagra worked for many years and then it didn't. Tried Vardenafil and it worked fairly well until it stopped about 6 months ago. Gave up and pursued an implant.

Time2Change
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby Time2Change » Sun Nov 26, 2023 3:40 pm

Once my doctor deflated me two weeks after my surgery, his instructions were no sexual activity, including jerking off, until my next follow-up appointment.

That ended up being eight weeks later because of how busy he was. Then, he taught me how to inflate and deflate and told me I could have sex.

I think this protocol was to give me time to heal enough.
55; ED for 22+ years; Coloplast Titan implant on 10/26/20; Dr. Martin Gross; Happy to share my experiences in private messages

BelleBite
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby BelleBite » Sun Nov 26, 2023 4:01 pm

I asked this question of my surgeon and he said that, once the sutures were healed and the stitches out (+10 days in my case), the ain reason for delaying sx is the discomfort/pain associated with the stretching of the penis when inflated. I am now 18 days out and the more I cycle the more the pain seems to ease. I have masturbated but no sex (lack of opportunity ;) )
72 radical prostatectomy surgery at MSKCC. Implanted Nov 2023 w/Dr Eid. Titan Coloplast.

martinh
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby martinh » Sun Nov 26, 2023 4:03 pm

The surgeon I used advised 6 weeks before sex to ensure proper healing, I think we made it to about 5 weeks before putting it to use.
2011 RP, nerve sparing 1 side, Gleeson score 7. Injections with Caverject 5mgm caused severe pain, Trimix resulted in PD. Implant 2014 AMS LGX 18cm +2cm rte. Revision 2021, AMS LGX 18cm + 2cm rte

dg_moore
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby dg_moore » Sun Nov 26, 2023 4:06 pm

The last time I had sex was two or three years before I got my implant in 2008. Many different stories here.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.

nats56
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby nats56 » Sun Nov 26, 2023 6:46 pm

So, as I suspected, it's really rather arbitrary. However, what some of you said coincides with my logic; if it don't hurt, go for the spurt... ;)
Had ED starting in my early 40s. Viagra worked for many years and then it didn't. Tried Vardenafil and it worked fairly well until it stopped about 6 months ago. Gave up and pursued an implant.

Witheringhog
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby Witheringhog » Sun Nov 26, 2023 9:46 pm

Agree with the above but i also read somewhere a capsule forms around the implant, my guess is you want that natural protection around the implant, then you cycle. Guessing here.
49 - Coloplast Titan 22 implanted 5-2 Dr. Clavell in Houston

Implantsoon84
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby Implantsoon84 » Mon Nov 27, 2023 4:55 am

Wouldn’t it be a bit risky to be having sex straight away with still weeping wounds etc of getting it infected. I’m 4 weeks post op and only just at the stage of pumping it up , although even that is hurting a lot

Old Guy
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby Old Guy » Mon Nov 27, 2023 8:19 am

Basically the cylinders and reservoir have to settle in, allow the tissue surrounding them to heal enough so no movement can occur. Important to follow doctors' advice because you don't want to repeat the surgery 4 or 5 weeks later.
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Re: why no sex after implant?

Postby Bushpig » Mon Nov 27, 2023 2:29 pm

Getting an Implant is major surgery so why risk doing damage or getting an infection by being in a rush to get going. If you want to give yourself the very best chance of success/healing then dont rush into sex.
I abstained for an extra two weeks as per my surgeons recomendations and it's done me the world of good.
Patients is the key.
55 yo Aussie. E.D all my life. Used Viagra for years but. Went on to Injections which worked well but very inconvenient and didnt work sometimes. Implanted Jan'18 with Titan one touch 20cm/ 1.5RTE by Pro Chung in Brisbane.


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