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Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 4:07 pm
by frank66665
sswinsfba wrote:frank66665 wrote:with all due respect but the contexts and comparisons of a seventy-two year old who has to deal with women aged 63/74 are light years away from a thirty-one year old who has to deal with girls aged 24/34, who do not even know what DE or an andrologist/urologist
Noted but I still wouldn't have any problem to disclosing my implant to a 24/34 year old if I could still meet & f*ck one now because she'd probably be a "working" girl and wouldn't care anyway. LOL!
Also, FWIW, I was married when I was 22 and my ex was 19. We remained married for 25 years and, back then, she cared more about me than my just my dick.
I don't think you guys give young women enough credit.
Sure it's "different" but, if the women likes/loves you, it shouldn't matter as long as it "works" and if it does matter to her, then it's better you find that out early that she doesn't deserve your time & attention.
There are way too many fish in the sea to worry about some b*tch who's going to judge you in that way.
Just dump her and move on if that happens!
this is your thought, tell it to a 26-year-old girl, there is a sea between saying and doing
Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 4:20 pm
by sswinsfba
frank66665 wrote:this is your thought, tell it to a 26-year-old girl, there is a sea between saying and doing
I'll let you know when I find a 26 yr old girl to f*ck" but don't hold your breath. LOL!
Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 4:39 pm
by wolfpacker
The women I've had sex with since getting my implant have been 30 and up. A few of them I told about the implant (after sex), most of them I did not tell. The ones I did tell are totally cool with it and very happy to keep coming back for more.
Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 5:15 pm
by Hillywilly
Lost Sheep wrote:Regard the attitude expressed in this thread:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=12167&p=105570Wear it proudly, but not blatantly. Self-aggrandizement is a turn-off. Confidence is an aphrodisiac.
Agree with this sentiment 100%
Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 5:22 pm
by Hillywilly
wolfpacker wrote:The women I've had sex with since getting my implant have been 30 and up. A few of them I told about the implant (after sex), most of them I did not tell. The ones I did tell are totally cool with it and very happy to keep coming back for more.
Thank you so much wolfpacker! I value everyone's opinion but is really good to hear from somebody my age too.
Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 5:35 pm
by Hillywilly
frank66665 wrote:sswinsfba wrote:frank66665 wrote:with all due respect but the contexts and comparisons of a seventy-two year old who has to deal with women aged 63/74 are light years away from a thirty-one year old who has to deal with girls aged 24/34, who do not even know what DE or an andrologist/urologist
Noted but I still wouldn't have any problem to disclosing my implant to a 24/34 year old if I could still meet & f*ck one now because she'd probably be a "working" girl and wouldn't care anyway. LOL!
Also, FWIW, I was married when I was 22 and my ex was 19. We remained married for 25 years and, back then, she cared more about me than my just my dick.
I don't think you guys give young women enough credit.
Sure it's "different" but, if the women likes/loves you, it shouldn't matter as long as it "works" and if it does matter to her, then it's better you find that out early that she doesn't deserve your time & attention.
There are way too many fish in the sea to worry about some b*tch who's going to judge you in that way.
Just dump her and move on if that happens!
this is your thought, tell it to a 26-year-old girl, there is a sea between saying and doing
I agree with Frank here. Younger girls don't really care about your struggles they care about how you can make them feel and if your confident. My last gf was 27, before that 20, and 22, and 30. They loved injections results but I never told them (except the 22 year old because she was a nurse and liked injections) I was injecting pills also worked at that time too so I didn't have to worry about relying on injections.
Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 6:51 pm
by Gt1956
Teenage girls know about ED. Several members here have mentioned having ED since they were teenagers so obviously it is highly likely that they experienced failures with teenage girls.
We raised 2 girls. After they left home, 1 at 18 other at 19. I was cleaning up some loose papers one of them left. In them I found a story about a girl that had repeated erection failures with a boyfriend. I never investigated which one wrote it, perhaps it was teenage fiction. But the fact is that they knew that failures happened & it was possible for a male to have repeated failures. I'm pretty sure this was before any of the common erectile meds. They're 47 years old now so do the math.
Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 7:45 pm
by Lost Sheep
frank66665 wrote:with all due respect but the contexts and comparisons of a seventy-two year old who has to deal with women aged 63/74 are light years away from a thirty-one year old who has to deal with girls aged 24/34, who do not even know what DE or an andrologist/urologist
I knew 20-somethings when I was that age. I remember them. I know 60+ women now. They are not all that different in the basic drives of lust, love, etc. Sure, at different years of age factors like risk-taking, child-bearing, desire for security and short- vs long- term committmens change, but the core elements of what attracts a woman to a man are more constant than I think you credit.
Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:08 pm
by Bigdave
Lost Sheep wrote:Hillywilly wrote:My experience with a dating site (Plenty of Fish) was that disclosing that I was functinally impotent but on the road to an implant, on which journey I was inviting a woman to accompany me on that "journey" was a positive one. My posting there clearly indicated that sexual intimacy (before and after implant) would be involved. Comments often included that my attitude was courageous and refreshing. I concluded that women appreciate a man who faces challenges (even sexual inadequacy) rather than hiding from them or going into denial. My experiences with women even before posting on PoF were that being up-front about my "penis does not work as well as it should, but I will do all I can to make sure you (my intended lover) are satisfied" was met with positive receptions.
What's your opinion of that site?
I've found most sites of that type are absolutely overrun with fakes and scammers.
Does pof seem to be better than most?
Re: Unmarried guys with the implant
Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:54 pm
by Hillywilly
Bigdave wrote:Lost Sheep wrote:Hillywilly wrote:My experience with a dating site (Plenty of Fish) was that disclosing that I was functinally impotent but on the road to an implant, on which journey I was inviting a woman to accompany me on that "journey" was a positive one. My posting there clearly indicated that sexual intimacy (before and after implant) would be involved. Comments often included that my attitude was courageous and refreshing. I concluded that women appreciate a man who faces challenges (even sexual inadequacy) rather than hiding from them or going into denial. My experiences with women even before posting on PoF were that being up-front about my "penis does not work as well as it should, but I will do all I can to make sure you (my intended lover) are satisfied" was met with positive receptions.
What's your opinion of that site?
I've found most sites of that type are absolutely overrun with fakes and scammers.
Does pof seem to be better than most?
I prefer bumble or hinge Pof not great imo